I have some friends and my parents dont want me hanging out with them anymore. I finally said fine ok I wont. So what should I do when they phone here looking for me? I dont want to tell them that my parents dont want me to hang out with them anymore because tehy will be idoits and be like "wel ignore them" or "so what, who cares?" What should I tell them?
2007-05-24 14:59:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I ALREDY SAID I CANT TELL THEM THAT MY PARENTS SAID THAT I CANT HANG OUT WITH YOU BECAUSE IT WONT WORK!!!!!!!!!!!!!! RED THE BLODDY QUESTION YOU IDIOTS!!!!!!!!
2007-05-24 15:07:59 · update #1
the truth
2007-05-24 15:03:25 · answer #1 · answered by skcs11 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well?
Tell them exactly that. "My parents don't want me to hang out with ou anymore."
If they say anything else, tell them "I can't go out with you anymore" once again.
Just because they ignore their parents or don't care about them, it doesn't mean you need to follow their BAD attitude.
If they percist, hand the phone over to your parents. They know what to say.
EDIT
You need to watch your mouth. You asked the question and people answered. Yes, people can read. You need not insult them. Tell them the truth and if they don't listen, it is not your problem. You are NOT correct in assuming you have to make them understand. You make a statement and leave it at that. They can not force you to play with them.
2007-05-24 22:03:58 · answer #2 · answered by tkquestion 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the real question is do YOU want to get rid of these friends? maybe the reason you're having trouble dumping them is that they are good friends--or maybe your parents are right, and if so just tell them the truth--say something about that it's not them it's you, or don't say anything--just gradually stop doing stuff with them.
but you should make sure you have new friends before you dump the old ones, or your life will really suck....
2007-05-24 22:11:40 · answer #3 · answered by Jen S. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop answering their calls. Block their numbers if you have to. Then if they keep bothering you, meet up with them somewhere and tell them the truth... with some extension. Like... your parents don't want you to hang out with them and if you do they'll take your car or phone priviledges. See how that works.
2007-05-24 22:10:34 · answer #4 · answered by ncoll049 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fine another friends....and then slowly leave them...when they call..u answer it...but just talk about 1 or 2 minutes...and they said that im busy....
if they ask u out just say that you already promise your new friends to go shopping with them...
i think this will get rid of them :)
2007-05-24 22:05:45 · answer #5 · answered by misony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If theyre your friends then theyll understand what our parents mean. If not, then it all works out and you can just ignore them anyway.
2007-05-24 22:04:01 · answer #6 · answered by Tangerine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the truth , you don't want to go out and you are not obliged to introduce excuses
2007-05-24 22:07:03 · answer #7 · answered by sunlight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋