I went out with him 2 times already & i still have feelings 4 him am i in luv or is it obession,uchoose? but what ever u do it better help me!
2007-05-24 14:26:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ok. This is your choice really. I have been in a situation where the guy I liked actually liked my best friend....who happened to be my sister! I think that kind of guy needs to think about how much he is hurting you. If your best friend goes for him.....I would wonder if it was a friend or not. Guard your heart is my main advice. The decision is yours. No one can tell you what to do and you be happy.
2007-05-24 14:31:26 · answer #1 · answered by flicka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love builds slowly. I mean lifetime real deal love.. I am sure you feel kinda left out, but if he doesn't like you like his gal , at least he was MAN enough to let you know and not string you on and break your heart..
I know it's not easy, but better and you should be grateful he was honest.. Most guys like the idea of having 2 females fighting over them,,,
Your man will come someday...Till then remember Dating is like Husband shopping.. Just like shoes, don't buy the first pair, there are better deals and fits down the road.
Luka
2007-05-24 21:34:09 · answer #2 · answered by lukabehindu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately, we all still hold feelings onto exes for whatever reason it maybe...love or obsession, depends on how long you two were dating. you should analyze the reason why you two broke up and consider is it worth getting back into.
does your BF know that he likes her. if she does, she should know that you still have feelings for him and she not cater to his nonsense.
why would you want to get back with your ex and he likes your BF? thats not cool at all! he should know better than to even approach the subject. i certainly would not want to date my ex and he likes my BF. it creats a triangle of drama. besides it would be uncomfortable when you guys all share the same enviroment.
2007-05-24 21:36:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont no enough to decide if its obsession. but if ur friends knows u have feelings for him you should tell her, not like in an angry ordering voice but just tell her ur feelings for him. if shes truly ur best friend shed care about your feelings and would at least put off goin out wit him
2007-05-24 21:34:50 · answer #4 · answered by Dananana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be over for you with this guy,its sounds like hes letting you know where he wants to go,you need to step back..
2007-05-24 21:32:02 · answer #5 · answered by glenys l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pshhh u jus i think u just like him cuz he likes ur bestfreind but on that case wud she really be ur bestfreind if they went out? i say u forget about him if u broke up wit him den why bother u left him if he broke up wit u den u shud accept it and move on unless yall really loved eachother then breakups are usually temprary but if in about 3 mounths if yall isnt bak together then u should forget it go wit me haha jk jk youll find somebody just be patient
2007-05-24 21:31:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if your friend was a good frieind she wouldn't go out with him. both of you should argee not to got out with him no matter how much you like him
2007-05-24 21:29:58 · answer #7 · answered by the forgotten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him and forget about him youre being protective because he likes your best friend
its all up to him if he still wants you or your best friend
2007-05-24 21:31:21 · answer #8 · answered by "sapper"016 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by gosh do a three-way! it's the best way to find out if you're orbital!
2007-05-24 21:30:06 · answer #9 · answered by Johnny P 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hon, If he likes your friend, let it go, you had your shot !
2007-05-24 21:32:10 · answer #10 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋