Am i just a tart....?!?!?!?!?

Question

I hang around with mainly boys all the time beacause i just relate to them so much easier than girls...they are so much more down to earth, funny and up for a laugh. A lot of girls are bitchy, judgemental, stuck up and hostile...or just plain ridiculous and fussy. I know i'm extreamly feminie and attractive (this may sound big headed but i'm just being honest) looks wise though and i was wondering, do i have a better time with men because basically it's all ba
sed on sexual attraction and flirting and i'm just taking the easy way out not hanging round with girls??!?! i do have some very close girl mates who i love and trust completely though?! And i strive to be friendly, optimistic and open minded to everyone and love to have fun with anyone i meet yet i just find a lot of girls dont't want to be this way back?! Yet more boys do?!?! Why is this?!?!?!?! Ahhhhhhh i'm going mad!

sorry maybe should have thought about the title of my questions more lol
i am a tart cos i wear revealing clothes all the time, pull any available fit man i can (within reason, wouldn't like to upset anyone) and get screaming drunk. but it's great!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i mean is there something wrong with my realtionships lol

i treat my fellow girls with love and gentleness in reply to one answer....i feel i try to look for the best in everyone...yet a lot of others pick and pick at others so called faults and it does my head in!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

not literally a tart who is promiscuous, only appearance-wise seen as a tart.guys usually hang around girls that look like a tart to make themselves look better in front of other guys or they favor females as their friends as extra eye candy and possibly becoming more than friends.maybe some are jaded but i think girls who hang around guys a lot love the attention that they're getting from the guys whereas girls are catty & competitive and usually won't stroke your ego with compliments.personally, i find it difficult to communicate with guys because we don't have mutual understanding and it's irritating but with girls, it's more comforting and easier to talk to.maybe most of the types of girls that you know belong in the "mean girls" category.there are nice fun loving girls out there...just gotta find them.

Answer 2

I think that there is more number of guys who like girls than girls who like boys so boys bear everything for a girl. As girls are just getting all the love and affection by many boys, then when they compare, they find boys more friendly and forgiving and everything than girls. The main reason behind is physical attractness. Same sex don't have physical attractness so the true personality comes out. But if u want to test then try talking to boys when they don't want to talk and then u will find the truth. So I think don't worry and be happy; always.

Answer 3

No, you're not a tart, I have been working for a company now for 19 years and I have been the only female here for about 10 years and work with about 20 men, I find that I relate to men more than women and find it a lot easier to get on with them, I'm like one of the lads, I do have a few female friends but am so used to male company. I too like to wear revealing clothes sometimes, well tops, that show my cleavage off, but no one takes any notice of that I wear and it is only to make me feel good about myself, my boobs are the best asset about me, I'm overweight and like to wear tops like this to stop male/females looking at me, thinking, I look horrible because I'm overweight.

Answer 4

I understand you exactly! I think it's easier to hang out with guys too, because they don't judge you and they don't care what you're wearing (partially because they don't even know the famous brands!!!), they don't care what your social status is or anything. They're really down to earth, and it's truly fun to hang out with them. With girls, they tend to be snobby and judging. Even do, there are some girls out there who truly are good friends, and I have a few very good girlfriends too.

You're not a tart at all!!!! :)

Answer 5

You are NOT a tart, you just prefer the company of guys that's all, because you find them easier to get on with and relate to them better.
I relate far easier to girls and most of my friends are girls. If you relate easier to guys than girls, so what. Have fun, there's no problem here.

Answer 6

I feel like this is an awesome trait to have. I'd much rather be friends with dudes because us girls are too judgemental and get hung-up on petty things. Embrace your magnetism to men! And throw some over my way.

Answer 7

I understand where you're coming from completely. The thing is: guys are just a lot less complicated than girls. Maintaining a friendship with them takes a lot less effort than with girls. Another good thing about guys: they rarely hold grudges. You can get into a fight with a girl and it ruin your friendship forever. Guys just aren't that high strung.

Trust me, your're not alone and you're not weird!

Answer 8

elvis costello wrote a song " party girl " but the far more memorable relevant lyric is " i heard you let that little friend of mine take off your party dress " from the song alison. a tart can be a lovely thing, a pr!ck te@se or b!tch isn't. i don't know, you didn't say how old you were - you might be 16.

Answer 9

How do you treat your fellow ladies,with love and gentleness or with hostility?Have you ever heard of this saying-what goes around comes around?Do whatever makes you happy,peaceful and sane as well.

Answer 10

no you are not a "tart" --- i prefer the company of ladies to males --- im not interested in sport or cars ---- if you enjoy the company and the guys enjoy your company without being overtly sexual then enjoy -- have fun and dont worry