so it's like an inverse relationship of like the number of rejection goes up, confidence level goes down
i'm almost empty on confidence now, what do i do?
the rejections are not mean or anything, but it still hurts
how can i turnaround this loser (myself) around into a happy confident person?
2007-05-24 13:00:40 · 8 answers · asked by Rock 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you have to talk to yourself every day about what a great person you are and show that confidence in everything you do and people will start to notice.
2007-05-24 13:03:59 · answer #1 · answered by avalon123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually the first thing you do is shut that stupid "im a loser" talk, that will only lead to your destruction. The fact you have had relationships means you can. Just go back to that thinking that lead you into them.
A little reflection may not hurt either, perhaps try and see if the fault was with you, or because the females you are picking up are just flawed.
Either way stay positive and keep your chin up.
2007-05-24 13:05:10 · answer #2 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rejection sucks, but it happens to everyone, there is someone out there who you are meant to meet and maybe this is the angels way of getting people who wouldn't be good for you out of the way, so every time you hear no think OK you were not meant to be and on to the next you will find a yes just dont get sad and focus on having fun because if your having fun nothing else matters.
2007-05-24 13:07:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to focus on what is good about you and not the rejection and the reasons of it, everyone is scared of rejection and it happens to most people at some point and time, you just have to look past it by rebuilding your confidence and saying to positive affirmations to yourself that you are still a good person and have many good traits that are worthwhile and will shine through that will make you worthy of a person getting to know you, start small with rebuilding if you have to by just writing out something daily that you like about yourself and focus your attention on that....
2007-05-26 18:17:13 · answer #4 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever think that perhaps the one that "rejects" you feels that they can't handle the situation and they are the ones that can't cope. They reject you before you reject them. It is a kind of self protection.
Don't let them drag you down, they are the ones that are losing not you, get out there, enjoy yourself, follow your dream and soon you will be on top of the world.
Have fun, life is too short not to.
2007-05-24 13:09:34 · answer #5 · answered by P.A.M. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best i could probably tell you is to not dwell on the rejection and move on in your life. As for becoming confident and a happy person, be who you are and don't dwell too long on what others think of you.
2007-05-24 13:04:40 · answer #6 · answered by KikkaiTheDistiller 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok you need to be yourself and you will get a great gurl but you have to no wat you are going after if u no that the gurl don't like you then don't ask her out...there is some1 in this world that is good for you and if you think that you are getting rejected then think other wise you probley have great friends and family to keep you going just think about the positive things in your life and wait till a girl asks you out to see if you like her! GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-05-24 13:07:34 · answer #7 · answered by horsegirl_sibley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something that you truly enjoy. Don't worry about others. Focus on making yourself more well rounded, not on making yourself well liked.
When you're truly happy with yourself, others will flock to you.
2007-05-24 13:03:53 · answer #8 · answered by katie m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋