There are so many cliques in my school, but I have so many friends in different cliques. How can I split myself to be with alll 3halves? I'm confused?
2007-05-24 09:40:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No, I know to be nice and also, they don't know I have to split myself up.
2007-05-24 09:45:37 · update #1
Remember cliques don't last after high school, everyone goes their separate ways and the friends who you stay in touch with are your "true" friends. Have fun in school and hang out with everyone you want to. You can't always split yourself but just make time for everyone you want to.
2007-05-24 09:43:59 · answer #1 · answered by heathermichelle9 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like youre doing a good job already. If you already have different friends in different cliques. Just continue to do what youre doing and remain friends with all of them. Try not to spend too much time with on set and start becoming more and more involved in that particular clique. Spread your frienship around. You can have your own clique.. that way you can keep all your friends.
2007-05-24 09:45:12 · answer #2 · answered by frankee_77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are yourself it does not matter how many cliques there are. If people do not accept you as you are their clique is not worth joining. Anyway I am sure you are a likeable person and being yourself should be enough for your friends.
2007-05-24 09:58:41 · answer #3 · answered by Dave aka Spider Monkey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't, so don't try. Search inside of yourself and figure out where you belong and who want to be with. Believe in yourself and others will believe in you. It's better to have a few good and trustworthy friends than belong to a bunch of cliques.
2007-05-24 09:47:47 · answer #4 · answered by bammbammak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say don't spread yourself too thin. Who says you have to be in a clique to be friends with anyone? Usually the most popular people are the ones that don't fall into any one stereotype--and get along with everyone.
You will be happiest if you just be yourself and don't feel that you need to belong to any certain category.
2007-05-24 09:44:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should all just try to get along. Away with this clique thing.
2007-05-24 09:42:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i must say i know the feeling. i was always the person that got along with everyone. i had my main group of friends that i was usually around out side of school.
you can't be with ever one all the time, so i would be NICE to every one and HANG OUT with who you can. no one should expect any thing from you. do what you can and you will be fine.
besides i know you feel like you will know all of these people forever but the truth is you wont. after high school life moves forward and people move apart. but that is life and its OK.
2007-05-24 09:50:26 · answer #7 · answered by Ian B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont try to split yourself up be yourself and be nice to everyone who respects you. Maybe your friends will realize that you dont have to be in their clique to be their friend
2007-05-24 09:43:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its great to be friends with a lot of different people. If they are pulling you in every direction the best thing to do is plan ahead. Make plans with the different people and stick to them. Did you ever think about hanging out with them all at once? Could be fun!
2007-05-24 09:43:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like my school haha! Well you gotta say to yourself..who are your true friends? Who do you sit with at lunch, or talk to most often in class? There's that saying, you can't be friends with everybody. You don't have to spilt yourself between friends. Like I said find out who your true friends are and the other people can be people you talk to in class or just a wave or hello etc etc
2007-05-24 09:44:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋