how to forgive people and controll your thoughts?

Answer 1

I believe in the positive thought and thinking and by visualizing things you want to happen, then it will eventually. Never under-estimate positive energy. So think happy thoughts and it will solve itself within time. Everything is a process and sometimes it goes faster than other times. But give yourself sometime and it will happen.

Answer 2

It can be hard depending on what a person did. I can forgive, by enjoying my life and just putting it behind me. True, if we continue to think about it then we manifest more hate and/or resentment and this just makes it even harder to forgive.
I was going to say; "You not have to control your thoughts, the government and media do that for us". But, this statement is not really true, only a pun. Actually how I do this is occupy my time in positive and constructive ways. I try to have some various hobbies and projects going all the time. Some are short term, some are more time intensive.
A good example is my neighbor. He enjoys mechanics and works on his cars and little things around the house, this his short term projects that take a few hours. If, he not have anything to do, he works on his long term project of restoring a 1952 Ford Pickup, which may take him years to finish.

Answer 3

To forgive is not to forget. You can, as I have done, forgive someone but still never forget what they did to you and not return to the naivety that you once had prior to the trespassing. I do not "punish" people, I instead blot them out of my life, rather it be a sibling or other family member, or a "friend". I am done with certain ones who I felt have dealt me a raw deal and as they attempt to reinstate themselves to my favor, I politely, non aggressively blow them off. I learned that to mourn these people as one might in a death, I can move to new places in life and not dwell on these negative emotions and thoughts.

Answer 4

just look at things from other peoples perspective, and if they did something on purpose the you can forgive them, but you don't have to like them

Answer 5

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Answer 6

I can always forgive but not forget

Answer 7

Praying consistently

Answer 8

well, it depends on what they did to upset/hurt u, if it was something serious then i suggest u sit and talk wit them, n if it was sumthin not so serious then give em the benefit of the doubt, cuz u only live once :)