this may seem like an obvious question, usually it is no, but believe it or not i was reading a website and this person did not care at all when she had an abortion. i understand there are serious reasons for having an abortion, but for the most part i dont agree with abortion. anyway im not here to judge, but to restore my faith in society, can you please tell me everything about your abortion. like how you felt, if you are truly sorry, etc. thanks.
2007-05-24 08:06:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
whoa. wait i have never had sex and i will NEVER have an abortion. i just said that i dont agree i just want opinions why people would actually do such a thing.
2007-05-24 08:17:11 · update #1
Who freakin made you to pass judgement and say that abortion is wrong? Why because they prevent a baby from coming into this world? Well so does condoms, birth control and abstinence, so I guess ppl who practice abstinence and "safe" sex should be blasted too because they are not doing their job to procreate. What have you done to prevent abortion in your country. What could you do for the thousands, maybe millions of babies that are aborted each year world wide. Would you buy them some apples sauce? How about a baby tee, maybe some booties or a pack of diapers. You can't take care of the babies. Perhaps the women who have them feel that they can't. And this thing about give them to someone who will love them. Tell me do you have a number of how many children leaving in your country alone are in orphanages and foster homes. Now tell me how many of those children will be beat, raped and verbally abused. What are you going to do to stop this from happening. NOT A DAMN THING!!! That being said I thing that's what you should do with your mouth when it comes to subgests like abortion. Unless you have a solution then you are just as much of the problem. You and all your self rigteous posters on A!
Now to the guy who said that in the bible it says that a fetus is alive when the egg and the sperm meets tell me what bible you are reading and where it's written. I'll share something with ya. God says that before I formed you in the belly before you were formed in the womb I knew you. That says that God knows a person before their mommy and their daddy even meet. Which means He has infinite wisdom. And in His infinite wisdom He knows what mistakes or sins we will make before we make them. There's forgiveness for women who feel as though they have to have an abortion. And there is forgiveness for YOU the self-righteous who feel like you have to pass judgement.
2007-05-25 04:22:44 · answer #1 · answered by veronica r 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
For me it was a hard decision to make at first, but it was the best given my circumstances. I never thought I would have one, but when the situation presents itself you have to weigh the options at that time. It actually caused me to put my life in check. I wasn't a drug user or anything crazy like that, I just wasn't going in any direction at the time.
Before I had the abortion I felt guilt over the decision I was making and had strange dreams of a bloody baby looking sad standing outside the clinic as I drove off, but the day after the abortion I felt like the bad dream had come to an end. I actually felt peaceful.
Every now and then I think of how things might have turned out if I had kept him/her, but I still think I made the best choice for me and have no guilt about it. I also still remember and take solace every year on the anniversary of the abortion and the date the doctor anticipated would be the birth day.
2007-05-24 16:09:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know from talking to people about it that it usually doesn't the person right away. Sometimes it will hit them later in life or when they have a wanted pregnancy. I can't imagine someone not caring, a lot of times they are in denial about it and repress their feelings because it was such a traumatic experience. Abortion is one of the those tricky grey areas that society will always be at odds with.
2007-05-24 08:12:10 · answer #3 · answered by Resa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really it comes down to making the best choice for you and feeling 100% about your choice. and not getting yourself into the same situation again. Regardless of what choice that is made you have to live with it, not the people who judge you or tell u what is right for you. I have had an abortion. I am for the most part okay with that choice. ( I aborted last Saturday) I do understand that my baby was a blessing, but not the right time. That is selfish of me yes, but I was not ready to struggle on my own. If you have an further questions feel free to email me. But if this helps, I wish I did not have to abort.
Also you can never say never, because you never know what life will bring your way. But make good choices!!
And for the person below me, thanks, you preach about the bible and yet you judge me... WOW... I wont close my legs but I will make better choices. :-) thanks!
2007-05-24 08:16:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had an abortion and do no regret it or feel ashamed of it, I made the choice that right for me. Nor am I happy about it, I am sad that the circumstances in my life at that tiem were not different but I made a very hard decision for both me, my boyfriend and the child I already had. Nobody takes abortion lighty, It is a life changing decision but a decision each woman has the right to make. And a decision that no woman should have to defend, make excuses for or lie about.
2007-05-24 08:47:19 · answer #5 · answered by MAC Addict 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Abortion in my eyes is wrong and to me it is murder. In the bible it states that once an egg is fertilized it is life. So to me that means a child is being murdered each time abortion happens. I am not on here to judge either, but this is how I feel about abortion. I know there are some special circumstances that would make it easier to choose abortion, but I still would leave it in God's hands. It bothers me when so many women are irresponsible, go out and have sex then do not want the responsibility and have multiple abortions. Then later decide they want a child and wonder why they can't have one. And for the selfish one that had an abortion last Saturday because she was not ready to be a mother. I have a few words for you. If you are not ready to take the responsibility for your actions KEEP YOUR LEGS CLOSED.
2007-05-24 08:16:23 · answer #6 · answered by atrocioustulip 1 · 1⤊ 4⤋
I aborted my last child, and no, it was not a decision easily made. I was not in a position to be able to raise another child, I was too old, and the child had some major genetic defects, so I aborted. Was depressed for years, really thought I had started menopause and could not get pregnant.
Ah well, we all make our own mistakes and pay for them too.
2007-05-24 08:11:37 · answer #7 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i was 20, on drugs and way out of control.
the abortion was a weird experience. there were people out front protesting, it was like an assembly line inside, and the nurses werent to nice. but i did not feel any pain. and there were no emotions nor regrets.
at 25 i had a child, at 27 i had my tubes tied.
i would rather see people on birth control then to get an abortion now.
2007-05-24 08:17:19 · answer #8 · answered by Cornell is Hot! 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You already have already predetermined that abortion is wrong. Why would anyone answer your question, expose themselves and get slaughtered by the kind ppl here on A!. LOL.
2007-05-24 08:10:52 · answer #9 · answered by NONAME 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
DONT GET ONE UR KILLING AN INNOCENT CHILD! IF U DONT WANT THE BABY PUT HIM/HER UP 4 ADOPTION!
2007-05-24 08:09:09 · answer #10 · answered by yariiღ 2 · 1⤊ 4⤋