Do you just let go? Does it pain you? Does it hurt you?
2007-05-24 07:29:39 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't think it's possible to let go... the heart is stronger than the mind. And it 's ready to pay all consequences too..
2007-05-24 07:41:34 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It hurts, it's hard, but you have to just let go and let it pass. Self control is difficult when your emotions are so strong but if you have compelling reasons why you shouldn't fall in love with someone, you need to do your best to just walk away. God honors us for following his ways. I went through this while I was married but remained faithful even though the marriage was in trouble. It was right to give the marriage every possible chance to work. It didn't, but i don't have to feel guilty for causing it to fall apart because I had an affair with someone else.
2007-05-24 07:38:12 · answer #2 · answered by AngelBleu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how much it pains you, you must let them go, and walk away. No good can come from falling in love with someone you can't have or fall in love with.
2007-05-24 07:34:35 · answer #3 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it does hurt you. It's all you think about night and day! My advice would be if you don't tell this person you will spend the rest of your life wishing you had and wondering what would have happened if only you would have said something and if you do and someone else gets hurt then at least you can be honest with yourself knowing that you tried because face it will you ever be able to be truely happy without this person.
2007-05-24 07:36:34 · answer #4 · answered by latasha_creech 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U just let it go. There WILL be others that u will fall in love with.
2007-05-24 07:31:59 · answer #5 · answered by yogurlmsbunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It pains me. It hurts me.
I dont remember how many times I cried for him. I dont know why I fell for a guy who was too shy to even come up to me and talk to me. i am not sure if it was even shyness. He would just stare at me from a distance with ridiculously sad feelings in his eyes.
it hurt me to see him so much in pain. I tried talking to him, but it didnt work out. We both were responsible for what happened, but since he is a guy, I really think he should have come up to me and talk to me.
Now, I am not sure if I'll see him ever again, and that makes me cry every now and then. I may sound like a completely insane person for missing a person I had hardly talked to. but then it's pretty insane!
2007-05-24 07:38:28 · answer #6 · answered by rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know who this person is but falling and love and loving someone are two totally different things to me....you fall in love with them and you work at loving them....no since and making a big mistake just becasue you are "in love" or infatuated with someone....move on you will fall in love again
2007-05-24 07:35:16 · answer #7 · answered by mlp7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you let it go. It will be painful at first, but the right person will come eventually. The best way to let go is to stop spending time with this person. Hope this helps =)
2007-05-24 07:33:31 · answer #8 · answered by World Peace Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lot of fish in the sea my friend. Just let it go and yes it will hurt but it is the right thing to do.
2007-05-24 07:39:33 · answer #9 · answered by JJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean but you can't fall in love with, be more specific? is it a close family? if you can't like married women than let go you will find another one.
2007-05-24 07:36:19 · answer #10 · answered by n b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the person go because if it is meant to be it will be. Move on. Afterall, there are more fish in the see and you might be missing out one someone who will make you happy.
2007-05-24 07:45:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋