i didnt realize that i was pregnant. when i did, am not married and didnt even had sex, only making love and his sperms entered my body probably, but its was16-weeks. HORRIBLE!!!!!!!!!!!! i wasnt vomiting, no big stomatch, no nothing, i still had my mesturations. but ther was a BABY in me. i killed it in the 17th week. im so sorry, i wish i could find out it before it grew up so much.
it was my FIRST child, can i get pregnant ever again??
can i ever get pregnant again??
it was impossible to born the baby, witout a father. and i hv no money t take care of the baby.
2007-05-24 06:43:24 · 36 answers · asked by she-ra 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
First of all I am very confused (like everyone else) on your definition of "making love" did you mean "fooling around".
As someone that worked in the medical field I can say that it IS possible to get pregnant without intercourse. HOWEVER, for this to happen the man would have to ejaculate on or very, very near to your vagina or in your panties and then you wear them and the sperm manages to enter. This is highly unlikely but documented cases have happened.
Next, yes you can get pregnant again. Very few women have any trouble conceiving after an abortion. You will want to start having mammograms at an earlier age as an abortion can raise your risk of breast cancer.
I agree that you most likely need counseling and there are a number of places where you can get free counseling. Local pregnancy care centers offer post-abortion counseling as do some Planned Parenthoods. PP will also get you set up on birth control.
2007-05-30 05:05:22 · answer #1 · answered by shalomd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...sounds like a really confusing time for you. I am concerned that you did not realize that you were 4 months pregnant. You should be able to get pregnant again, especially if there were no "complications" with the procedure such as an infection. It is normal to feel some sort of guilt after having an abortion. But, it is a choice that you made and you can't turn back time. There are many resources to help people talk about there feelings after having an abortion. You could try calling planned parenthood for a refferal to a therapist who specializes in such treatment. No matter what the outcome was, whether you had the child and decided to raise it, put the child up for adoption, or terminated the pregnancy I bet that you would feel some level of guilt being that it doesn't sound like you are prepared to have a child. I urge you to speak with your gynecologist to learn more about safe sex practices and pregnancy prevention until you are financially and emotionally ready to try and conceive a child.
2007-05-24 06:58:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
there is no probably about it--his "sperms" entered your body. Perhaps you mean by making love he promised to pull out before anything could happen. As you can see, that's not very effective. A teeny-tiny percentage of women (I have to agree, you sound very young) can get pregnant from naked fooling around, if the man ejaculates near your ****. Very, very, very rare.
Not everyone throws up when pregnant, and some do carry small. Odd that you were still menstruating 16 weeks after conception though... Are you sure you were pregnant & didn't have a tumor instead? I had one many years ago & the dr told me it was the size of a fetus about that far along. I had my periods all along--abnormal timing & length, I grant you.
If your strange little story is true, unless they performed a hysterectomy on you, you should still be able to have children. In the meantime, go back to school & apply yourself. Keep your pants on, and wait until you are ready to have children to make love or have sex again.
2007-05-25 10:02:44 · answer #3 · answered by Amethyst 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow, Imagine Making love and having sex is the same thing. However with Making Love there is usually emotions involved.
Yes one can get pregnant again, so if one is going to make love or have sex they better use some type of contriceptive or another baby might result. Just thank your lucky stars that it was a baby not an STD.
Before having sex or making love again read up on the effect it has on the body. This way if one makes love they can find out some of the sympthoms of pregnancy.
Maybe a Good sex education course is needed before "making love", again.
2007-05-24 06:56:59 · answer #4 · answered by wondermom 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
having sex and making love is the same thing, you still cant get pregnant i had one around the same weeks and i regret doing it because the baby was big already now its something you have to live with. and there are side affects of having abortions and not being able to get pregnant again is one of them. now since you went thou this you should take care of yourself so this wont happened.and as far as not having money there's always way to do things and there's options , as far as a daddy for the baby a mother can do both its hard but you would get throe it unless you didn't know who the baby's father was or you were in a different situation
2007-05-24 06:55:10 · answer #5 · answered by V 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From the sounds of it you are young. You made your decision and you will have to live with it. You can most likely get pregnant again, but your chances and the risks you took because of abortion could lower your chances. Don't have sex or make love as you put it unless you are fully aware of consequences and you use protection. Your baby's heart started beating at 8 weeks along maybe if you would have waited another week you would have felt that baby move and kick and then you would have made a different decision.
2007-05-24 06:49:19 · answer #6 · answered by MommyofTwo 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
u can get pregnant again and im sorry u feel so horrible about this, but if u were having sex and knew u couldnt take care of a baby, why didnt u use something? and listen up honey, i was a single mom of 2 kids collecting unemployment(my second son was 5 mths old when his father and i split) and it was tough to do on my own, but i did it, because my kids kept me going. u also dont need a man to take care of a child. u can do anything u set your mind to. just promise yourself that if u are going to have sex again, u will use protection.
2007-05-30 18:55:56 · answer #7 · answered by spacelee666 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
making love = having sex.
It is possible to give birth to a baby without a father, many do it all the time. Those pregnant women who lost their husbands on 9/11 went on to carry their babies and give birth to them. There are single women everywhere who have babies and go on to either raise them or give them up for adoption, which is a loving thing to do if they cannot give them what they need.
I'm so sorry if this story is true.
2007-05-24 07:59:02 · answer #8 · answered by AV 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can get pregnant again. And you should pray to God about abortion, and if He says it is ok then do it again. Having an abortion saves the lives of 12 loved and living children. God gave you a brain, use it. There are millions of children that die every year due to a lack of resouces. If you bring another into the world you are contributing to the death of a child. Then you have a child you cannot support and are the cause of the death of another child. How selfish is that.
God punishes the pro lifers by making them resposible for the death of the millions of children that die from lack of resouces. Don't be pro life. It is murder.
2007-05-25 23:59:26 · answer #9 · answered by Give me Liberty 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think your full of ****! that late in the pregnancy you should of knew you were pregnant. Once a baby has a heartbeat it's a living beaning. At that stage you more likely new the sex of the baby. Nothing is impossible just a harder. what I think your feeling right now is guilt.
2007-05-24 06:57:04 · answer #10 · answered by Tara Elaine 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋