i have had 3 miscarriages, one of which was an ectopic pregnancy, in less than a year. why is it that all i can think about is babies? my cousin is pregnant and im so jelous. what can i do to get my mind off of jealousy and babies etc?
2007-05-24 06:23:43 · 6 answers · asked by obsessed_with_yoo 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Don't try to get over anything
just mourn over the lost of your babies
I have 3 also and my sister in law was pergnant at the same
time I misc 2 of them it was hard but guess what I love that little girl
so mourn you lost because you will not get over it that easy
once you are better than you will love your cousin baby
I am not over mines yet
but I am pregnant now just 5weeks
I have not tell people that are close to me
but my husband is so scare he calls every2 hrs to check if I am still pregnant and OK (I almost die the last time )
let your body get better give yourselves at least
6 month to a year before trying again
even after my doc told me to try in 3months I still decided to wait for 6 months
Please take care
2007-05-24 06:43:04 · answer #1 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww I am so so sorry to hear of your loss. To be honest I got the same way. It's not that I wanted to replace the ones I lost... I just felt more frustrated I think that it was becoming such a problem.
After I lost our son in 2005, I couldnt even grocery shop. I saw a baby in the line in front of me, left my cart right there in the store and left balling. Maybe therapy? Looking back, I wish I would have sought some therapy.
2007-05-24 06:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Search deep inside yourself and make yourself find a way to be happy for your cousin. Acknowledge that your losses have been painful and accept that you cannot change what has happened to you in the past, but that with a good doctor's care and advice you may be able to achieve a healthy pregnancy in the future.
2007-05-24 06:30:02 · answer #3 · answered by naniannie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stress!!!!!!!! That is quite a loss to have. It helps if you can
take away the mental stress from the losses as that will
help you move forward. Get a copy of Dianetics, The Modern
Science of Mental health and give it a read. It will answer
all of your questions.
2007-05-24 06:31:44 · answer #4 · answered by GREGORY T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happened to me only once, and i don't think there is anything that can be done, babies are everywhere, and everytime you see them you are sad, the only thing that helped me get by, was to know that it wasn't meant to be, and eventually i will have a healthy happy baby/
2007-05-24 06:27:53 · answer #5 · answered by ilovewigglesandgiggles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a misscarige last month,and i know everyone around me is pegnant.
2007-05-24 06:53:05 · answer #6 · answered by AMBER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋