wut should i do if i get preganant at the age 14?

Question

be specific and nice comments

Answer 1

I am being very specific when i say, you shouldn't be getting pregnant at this age. Why would you be having sex at this age anyway. Wen I was 14 I was still playing with barbie dolls, sex was the last thing on my mind. And anyway what do you know about having sex? Maybe this is a question that you need to ask your mom.

Answer 2

you need to take a pregnancy test and if your not pregnant then thank the lord and never let this be a question at such a young age again!

stop being selfish, what if you are about to seriously bring a child into this world? you cant even get a job yet except for bagging grocerys. If you get preg you will be high risk and that will put your life and ur babies like in danger. I would just talk to your parents if I were you. You need to go to the doc and atleast get birthcontroll if ur not pregnant and NEVER have sex with out a condom, its like 1 out of 4 people have something now adays, dont be so careless because one day itll be too late and youll be kickin your self in the @$$. consintrate on education and stop thinking sex is so important, when you look back youll see how stupid these decisions really were, trust me. just get it together and pray your not pregnant, it will ruin your life and an innocent childs life.

Answer 3

Tell your parents and get with a psychologist to talk you through your feelings. I would recommend getting w/ an adoption agency that has a program that gets you hooked up w/ a candidate who is involved throughout your pregnancy (like coming to ultrasound and medical appts, the birth possibly etc) so they feel more attached and involved. Then meanwhile you can reevaluate your life, what you're doing, what your goals are, your decision making and how you can make sure to give YOURSELF the best life possible. If you worry about your parents not supporting you or being more mad at you than anything then you can count on your decision making being a helping factor (ie choosing adoption, shaping up your life and showing initiative to better yourself). They will feel surprised but their parental instincts will kick in if you let them know you need thier support instead of doing what you may naturally feel like doing, which is fighting them.

Answer 4

If you're not already pregnant,it may be time to make some sound decisions on where you want to go in life.Being pregnant at any age is hard,but 14 is much too young for you and much too young to give your baby the kind of mothering it would deserve.Not saying you wouldn't love it,but there would come times when your friends were out doing there thing,and you would feel very burdened and tied down.Babies may not be able to talk,but they can still sense how you feel.You're still so young,please try to make wise decisions for yourself and your future.

Answer 5

I'd guess abortion is the best choice for you (and please be more careful next time--if he didn't bring a jimmyhat, he gets none--pull out on time is the way to parenthood and disease). You are really going to have to think about that pretty hard for a day or two before you decide, but if you do go that route, get to the doctor quickly, and you can't let any of us make up your mind for you.

It is pretty clear you also need to have a chat with your parents, since you are having sex but you aren't on the pill. You could probably get the pill from your doctor without them, but parents can be a great resource--both for getting you out of sticky situations like this and for keeping you from getting into them in the first place.

Answer 6

If you are and it's got something to do with your last question, please tell an adult you trust. If there isn't any, go to the hospital and you can talk to someone there. Because it isn't your fault in this situation. And if it is about the other situation, you do not want to have a child (1st because you are only 14, 2nd of all because of the blood relationship) The baby would more than likely have serious problems like retardation, etc. Please get away and talk to someone.

Answer 7

ok well if you are 14 and pregnant, your body is not ready to handle being pregnant. You haven't fully developed yet, you could injure yourself and have many complications with the pregnancy.
You need to tell your parents and figure out what you can do....maybe give it up for adoption to a loving family that can't have children.

Answer 8

At 14 you should be playing sports and hanging out with your friends NOT having sex and getting pregnant. If you are already pregnant you need to discuss it with your parents and the father and consider your options. Get seen by a doctor as soon as possible since you are so young and your body is still developing you should get immediate care to have as healthy of a pregnancy as possible.

Answer 9

Talk to your parents, talk to the guys parents, Talk about your options. And if you aren't pregnant
Don't have sex, and if you do take the precautions so you don't get pregnant at 14. condoms, birth control, ABSTINENCE.

Talk to your parent about the decision you have made so they can help you protect yourself

Answer 10

you should slap yourself, tell your parents, go to the doc, tell the boy your having sex with (who will probably not be around for you or the baby). Think about adoption youre 14 a baby having a baby!