I do not know why, but my fiance wants to be a massage therapist and I do not like the idea of her touching other men. I hate the idea of a naked guy laying on a bed and her touching every part of his body. Or what if something happened? I just dont like the idea. But I hate to discourage her.
2007-05-24 05:19:49 · 8 answers · asked by scott d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well if you don't like it then you shouldn't marry her. You do get that choice. I will tell you this, you are right in your thinking.
Fact is she will be doing more than just massaging then at some point, happens to all of them.
Just find someone else and don't basher her over it. If that is what she wants to do, let her. However you don't have to put up with it and have her cheating on you.
2007-05-24 05:26:57 · answer #1 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a trust issue to me. You don't seem to trust your fiance to handle a difficult situation if it should arise. I get a weekly massage from a male friend and believe me, there is nothing sexual about it. When you're in pain and someone is kind enough to relieve it they're generally focused on doing just that, relieving your pain. I also return the favor and work on his back, neck and shoulders. The whole time I'm working on him I'm focused on where the problem areas are and how I can work the knots out and relax the muscles. A good massage therapist is focused on helping correct problems not causing them.
2007-05-24 05:26:53 · answer #2 · answered by AngelBleu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To become a massage therapist requires specific training. In addition, massage therapist have their specially designed tables on which massage is performed. it is not done on a bed, Massage therapists are trained not to do genital massage and most if not all will not do it. It crosses a professional line and they are not hired for that purpose. Your should go to a salon and get a massage so you know first hand what they do.
2007-05-24 05:34:03 · answer #3 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are really getting strict with massage parlors now so I don't think you have to worry. Plus, if you trust her then you know she's not going to be touching some random guy for kicks and giggles it's her job. Often, I see more women than men going to the spa, but I'm sure she'll have male clients too. Don't worry. I would encourage her to keep pepper spray or something just in case ANYBODY gets to fresh. Don't let some of the ladies fool ya!
2007-05-24 05:24:29 · answer #4 · answered by newsgal03 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate to get mean, but buck up, nothing will happen and you know it, do you ever hear of any stories of the person getting a massage seducing the masseuse? I haven't heard a single one, so just let her go do it. It means more money for the both of you anyway.
2007-05-24 05:24:32 · answer #5 · answered by Cory W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless she is working at the happy ending massage parlor get over it, and stop trying to control her life.
2007-05-24 05:27:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be uncomfortable... I hit on my massage therapist on a regular basis. :-D
2007-05-24 05:25:11 · answer #7 · answered by Charlie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you do no longer believe her then you ought to not be along with her, she is doing her job for money and that's nonetheless an identical job in spite of in spite of if she is able to business enterprise or someones living house it continues to be a profession.....
2016-12-11 19:17:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋