Im 15 yrs old. Everytime I look at guys shirtless, I get seriously hard, I like looking at pictures of guys and other parts of their bodies, but I also like girls Im I gay or what?
2007-05-24 04:24:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Would looking at a girl shirtless provide the same level of arousal? It is always possible that you are bisexual and will eventually desire both men and women equally. You will have to be more clear about what you mean when you say you "also like girls" -- I like chocolate, but it doesn't give me wood. It is possible that you are gay, but that is not a bad thing. There are a lot of wonderful gay people in the world, and it shouldn't bother you if you are.
2007-05-24 09:21:13 · answer #1 · answered by testing123 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your Human! Everyone enjoys the beauty of the human form/body...maybe your just appreciating the physical beauty of your gender. That doesn't necessarily mean your "gay"
Homosexual behavior involves more than just "sex" - do you want an emotional bond with a man? Do you want a family and life together> these are "relationship issues"
Maybe you should just wait until you define yourself and explore
At 15 you are still learning about your sexuality and now is not the time to "decide" - stay open and develop an interest in getting to know how YOU relate to people of either sex....not how your penis does. Because most 15 year olds get hard if the wind blows across it...does than mean your attracted to "wind"?
Give it time before you make this "decision"
2007-05-24 04:29:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Testing123 has asked exactly the right question.
If the answer's yes, and you really are bi, here's the bad news: A large number of both gays and str8s don't believe there is any such thing as a bisexual. Such people mostly think that you're gay, and just including the opposite sex because of societal expectations or pressures; a few think you're only including your own sex because you're trying to be shocking.
The good news is that people are getting better educated about sexuality, and by the time you're picking a partner--or partners!--for a long-term relationship, there will probably be fewer disbelievers.
2007-05-24 09:59:10 · answer #3 · answered by georgetslc 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. And probably bi-sexual too. But you're 15 and you have plenty of time to figure out who you are and what you like. Right now your future aspirations and potential financial status should be of greater concern. Put the grown up issues aside and deal with getting a good education and making something of your life.
2007-05-24 04:30:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, I use to have the same feelings when I was your age, but I ask myself a lot of question before coming with that answer if i was gay or not. You should do the same thing, ask yourself if you have this feelings because you like guys? or because someone did something to you that make you feel that about guys? I know that I gay because some in my family did something to me not because I was born like that.
2007-05-24 05:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by Samuel G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're Bi. At 15 years old your testosterone is working overtime so I wouldn't make any announcements until you're 100% sure of your sexuality. Don't worry, you'll eventually sort yourself out, for now, just do what feels right!! <3
2007-05-24 04:28:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could be. The issue here is that since you are a teen, the wind may blow and you could get aroused. The hormones are outta whack! It may be a couple of years before you find your true self. Don't be ashamed to experiment, that may help you choose your path.
2007-05-24 04:29:52 · answer #7 · answered by luvslugg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really depends upon whether you are thinking about having sex with these guys you see. If so then maybe you are gay. You will need to at least reach 18 before you can begin to sort these things out. So don't rush to label yourself.
2007-05-24 04:32:30 · answer #8 · answered by The Eight Ball 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When I was 15, I was looking at both and getting my hard-on looking at everybody and playing with myself. So it's just natural
2007-05-24 04:37:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It could be that you're just really horny as a 15 yo and are looking at anyone for sexual relief.
2007-05-24 04:27:45 · answer #10 · answered by Abby O'Normal 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋