male exotic dancer/stripper?

Question

i am 28 and when i was in college i would dance for girls at parties and stuff. i was told i can do it for a living. i work out a lot and am big into physical fitness. i have a great career, but my life is bring, professional,etc. i am going to keep my career, but i would like to strip for girls at night part-time. the thing is that it would have to be a secret or i will lose my career. how can i advertise myself and where to get the work? in college girls would just ask me , word of mouth type of thing. but now i am in dallas, texas and dont know how or where to advertise myself--help anyone???

Answer 1

The first Answerer has a good start on it, Ethan. She says you can't keep your career and strip, and she's absolutely right. I mean, would you believe even a sitcom where a guy's in your proposed situation and he ISN'T found out and forced to make a choice?
So you have two options:
1. Do something else to show off your great bod, something respectable enough that when you're eventually and inevitably found out, it won't hurt your career. That would presumably be PG-rated modeling, done under another name to indicate respect for your profession. (It doesn't make any sense that using another name matters, but I think your bosses would all agree it does.)
2. If that's not going to float your boat the way stripping does (and I can't imagine it would compare), or if your career won't even stand modeling: Consider dumping that and supporting yourself as a stripper. It's certainly a major income cut, particularly at first, but if you also adjust your spending, and get professional advice on investing, you might actually be financially okay by the time you age out. (If you don't mind going gay-for-pay, stripping for guys, you might be able to keep going for years longer; many of us have a daddy/bear fetish that I don't think str8 women share.)
Before you go for option 2, however, you ought to get professional advice on how good you really are, how much you can make immediately and potentially, maybe take dance lessons to improve your act (up to the point where it won't improve your take any further), get liposuction to achieve incredible abs instead of a merely good set, and whatever else goes into being a truly bombshell stripper. For one thing, you'll probably have to consider relocating and/or going on the road a lot.
Afterthought: You don't say what your professional career is. There MAY be an Option 3. Or I may be fantasizing; you'll know better than I do, Ethan.
Say you're a lawyer, you *could* set up independent, so that you don't have any bosses but your clients. In that case, somewhere in my office I'd keep a comparatively small pic of myself at the thong-only stage. That way, every potential client is eventually going to ask about it, you tell them that you're a part-time stripper, and they either decide to retain you or not, with full disclosure (you should pardon the phrase). And some of them will ask for your other business card!
On the other end, it wouldn't hurt to offer a strip as "Ethan, the Lusty Lawyer (and He Really Is One)," starting from a full 3-piece suit with a briefcase--which you'd later pick up and skin out of your thong behind. Make sure you have some of your lawyer cards in the briefcase. (Incidentally, the suit-&-tie thing is another gay-guy fetish.)

Answer 2

I wouldn't if you want to keep your job.
I live near Dallas and I am in marketing. It is amazing how small Dallas is. I keep seeing the same people around for years - same thing with my husband who works for a trucking company. we see people he works with at parties [everyone seems to know everyone] and in the stores etc. He lives over a half hour away from his job and mine takes me into Dallas sometimes.
Trust me. Word and people really get around!! LOL If you have a good job don't do it.
Did you ever think of taking dancing, maybe teaching it, modeling or maybe a personal trainer? That shows off a great body ;)

Answer 3

Ethan,

We've given you answers to this question in the past and they've removed the question. You've also posted this same question in 5 different categories. Are you asking legitimately or are you just trying to get shock value?

Advertise under a pseudo name in the Dallas Observer.

Answer 4

You should really think about the consequences if you do dance at night....I mean is it really worth over losing your job? Dancing may get old to you eventually....But I understand the fact that you enjoy it and can get ALOT of money from it but look towards the future a little bit....

Good Luck Papi!!!

Answer 5

Try putting on a free ad on craigslist website below.

Answer 6

Craigslist.com
backpage.com

Answer 7

i think if u wanna do it u should.