i am 28 and when i was in college i would dance for girls at parties and stuff. i was told i can do it for a living. i work out a lot and am big into physical fitness. i have a great career, but my life is bring, professional,etc. i am going to keep my career, but i would like to strip for girls at night part-time. the thing is that it would have to be a secret or i will lose my career. how can i advertise myself and where to get the work? in college girls would just ask me , word of mouth type of thing. but now i am in dallas, texas and dont know how or where to advertise myself--help anyone???
2007-05-24 03:56:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Get a pre-paid cell phone and some business cards with a different name and advertise in the newspaper with your pre-paid cell.
2007-05-24 05:46:46 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
KA1227 has a good start on the answer, Ethan. She implies you can't keep your career and strip, and that's absolutely right. I mean, would you believe even a sitcom where a guy's in your proposed situation and he ISN'T found out and forced to make a choice?
So you have two options:
1. Do something else to show off your great bod, something respectable enough that when you're eventually and inevitably found out, it won't hurt your career. That would presumably be PG-rated modeling, done under another name to indicate respect for your profession. (It doesn't make any sense that using another name matters, but I think your bosses would all agree it does.)
2. If that's not going to float your boat the way stripping does (and I can't imagine it would compare), or if your career won't even stand modeling: Consider dumping that and supporting yourself as a stripper. It's certainly a major income cut, particularly at first, but if you also adjust your spending, and get professional advice on investing, you might actually be financially okay by the time you age out. (If you don't mind going gay-for-pay, stripping for guys, you might be able to keep going for years longer; many of us have a daddy/bear fetish that I don't think str8 women share.)
Before you go for option 2, however, you ought to get professional advice on how good you really are, how much you can make immediately and potentially, maybe take dance lessons to improve your act (up to the point where it won't improve your take any further), get liposuction to achieve incredible abs instead of a merely good set, and whatever else goes into being a truly bombshell stripper. For one thing, you'll probably have to consider relocating and/or going on the road a lot.
Afterthought: You don't say what your professional career is. There MAY be an Option 3. Or I may be fantasizing; you'll know better than I do, Ethan.
Say you're a lawyer, you *could* set up independent, so that you don't have any bosses but your clients. In that case, somewhere in my office I'd keep a comparatively small pic of myself at the thong-only stage. That way, every potential client is eventually going to ask about it, you tell them that you're a part-time stripper, and they either decide to retain you or not, with full disclosure (you should pardon the phrase). And some of them will ask for your other business card!
On the other end, it wouldn't hurt to offer a strip as "Ethan, the Lusty Lawyer (and He Really Is One)," starting from a full 3-piece suit with a briefcase--which you'd later pick up and skin out of your thong behind. Make sure you have some of your lawyer cards in the briefcase. (Incidentally, the suit-&-tie thing is another gay-guy fetish.)
2007-05-24 05:46:55 · answer #2 · answered by georgetslc 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok, think about this... if your career is as great as you say, why would you risk it in this way? Are you prepared to lose it?
I have nothing against strippers so long as there is no coercion involved. But there must be a way you could have your fun without putting your career at risk. Of course, you could consider a career change....but if I were you I would consider the potential for advancement and longevity of each option.
2007-05-24 04:40:56 · answer #3 · answered by not yet 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
at the start, you won't be able to do it regionally. the final ingredient you may desire ensue could be occurring your bosses domicile or something! So, take it to the close to with the help of cities. Run commercials interior the paper below unique male dancer. make up a corporation card with your Dancer call and a non-paintings appropriate telephone huge type. pass them out on the golf equipment or on the events. you additionally can flow to three of the bridal shops and flow away a flyer. stable success
2016-10-05 23:17:04 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about taking out an ad in the local newspaper? The classified department could tell you which section to place it in and you don't have to use your real name. You could also check out some clubs that provide this type of entertainment and ask them if you could perform free for them,but great exposure for you.
2007-05-24 04:07:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you could descreetly hand out cards, of course the cards would only carry your stage name.
2007-05-24 04:07:24 · answer #6 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
ooohh
you remind me of 12-pack from I LOVE NEW YORK...haha
2007-05-24 15:27:54 · answer #7 · answered by roxygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with Laela
2007-05-24 07:22:52 · answer #8 · answered by alexs117 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋