Forgiveness is the first step in your own personal healing when you've been hurt. You won't forget, but the pain fades with time.
The second question you asked "Can you change if you love someone"? I'm not sure what you're asking here, but I believe a person can change their attitude or habits if they really want to. It requires a lot of determination.
2007-05-24 03:58:15
·
answer #1
·
answered by tiedtoarainbow 7
·
1⤊
0⤋
It Depends on The Situation And Person If It Is Someone I Truly Love Then Yes But If It Is A Friend Then Maybe Or Maybe Not
2007-05-24 04:00:06
·
answer #2
·
answered by ephstigers 6
·
0⤊
0⤋
If you love someone, you should love them unconditionally. I think you can change if you truly love someone because you want to please and be pleased by them. If someone hurts you and you have a hard time forgiving them, ask yourself (after you cool down) if that person were injured, or worse dead, would you still be mad at them or would you wish you had one more chance to forgive them? Most of the time we wish for one more time so why don't we just take that one more time anyway? When you stay mad at someone it is like drinking poison and hoping your emeny dies. It is only hurting you. If you are talking about people you know, I don't see how you can say you forgive someone if you don't forget too.
2007-05-24 04:07:41
·
answer #3
·
answered by VetSupporter 4
·
1⤊
0⤋
Even though forgiving someone is such a hard thing to do, it is one of the best. If people live with a grudge their whole life and with regrets, it is really hard to get through life. It think that everyone should learn to forgive even if it is someone that they love or if the person did something bad.
2007-05-24 03:53:35
·
answer #4
·
answered by Emma Chica 3
·
0⤊
0⤋
Every situation is different. Do I forgive? Yes. Do I forget? No.
2007-05-24 03:56:04
·
answer #5
·
answered by Joshua 6
·
0⤊
0⤋
Well you can forgive the one you love but you never forget.
2007-05-24 03:53:11
·
answer #6
·
answered by Granny 1 7
·
0⤊
0⤋
A little thing I 've never cared but it's bad thing I need time to learn him and I can forgive the one I love.
2007-05-24 03:54:31
·
answer #7
·
answered by กระจกใส 7
·
0⤊
0⤋
Forgiving is the easy part. But I dont think it is possible to forget.
2007-05-24 03:56:07
·
answer #8
·
answered by Rod 3
·
1⤊
0⤋
I think all of us have the capacity to forgive, whether we choose to do it or not is up to the person. Forgetting is another matter completely.
2007-05-24 03:53:49
·
answer #9
·
answered by Anonymous
·
0⤊
0⤋
i believe u can forgive anything your heart and mind allow....but to forget is totally different!! it stays with u and just sits in the back of your mind!! love is tricky!!
2007-05-24 03:53:29
·
answer #10
·
answered by New York Chic 6
·
0⤊
0⤋