When people find someone attractive that I dont, I get really upset and angry. I dont know why. I feel like people have lost their sense of beauty. For example, I find Penelope Cruz repulsive and I get really angry because she is considered amazing by some others. the same thing with Orlando Bloom, I dont find him attractive and I get annoyed seeing some girls having crushes on him! this happens with the people in my everyday life also. Plus, I tend to dislike and think less of the people who do not share the same opinion as me! But if someone tells me he/she likes Belluchi or Clouney I like them immediately! Why am I being like this? I know that people can have their own taste but still I get really disappointed when I see that people have fallen out of good taste! How do I stop this from bothering me???
2007-05-24 03:22:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
You want to hear agreement with your opinions... you know, so you don't feel the oddball...
The more comfortable you are with your feelings and opinions the less agry you will be at people that disagree with you... It's a natural growing process. But some people don't grow out of it...
One of the things you need to understand is there are opinions as wide as there are people on the planet and you can't change any of them...
Hang in there! and relax, more people share your views than you realize...
2007-05-24 03:32:38 · answer #1 · answered by Rusty J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are perfectionists and can't help how they feel. I don't know your age, but there's still time to accept others opinions. After all, they accept yours. Try not let it get to you, take a deep breath before you give a reaction. It would be a boring world if everyone had the same tastes. Good luck.
MG....Ford cars model? Stop waffling on about your imaginary world, and give straight answers
2007-05-24 10:43:39 · answer #2 · answered by Taylor29 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I suppose it is because you want people to think like you because you think that you know best. Everyone one thinks that he/she knows best.
You seem disappointed with peoples preferences nowdays and maybe you are a little bit scared of peoples perception of what is nice or not.
I agree with you, it is horrifying that people find a short, whiney, duck face penelope cruz pretty!! where is this world going to? of course she cannot be compared with Belluchi!
See, other people agree with you. But everyone has the right to have his own opinion, just like you are. Like the ones you like and let others like the ones they like! it makes the world more interesting and also you can analyze people by observing who they like;) Its a good thing!!!
2007-05-24 11:08:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the same as me. I am a model and I see people all the time. I also admire some and hate others.
Just remember some things....
They may be ugly but have characters and identities
You have a right to speak out and its freedom of speech to comment
You do seem a fashionista and some fashion freaks just spill it out.
I am a fashion freak and everytime i see something I go like yuck horrible and thats fine as long as you dont tell them in the face or get a slap back or something.
Relax coz many women do so. Have you seen the movie "The Devil wears Prada"!!!!
2007-05-24 10:27:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
gurl if you feel that you have lost your sense of beauty, let me tell you this its well look in the mirror to see some inner beauty. i really feel that way to sometimes, like when theres someone pretter than me i want to be more prettier. And if youre 14 sometimes teens have good taste in actors. try watching movies that have hugh grant in them and jamie foxx. or look at red carpet pictures. try writing to a magazine about your question. some actors and actresses it may be ther job to not look so actractive. but look at johnny depp yeah he may look like a total bum and a gypsy but thats the look that actors have nowadays.
2007-05-24 10:36:24 · answer #5 · answered by bethanyb157 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just know that everyone has their own opinions... and some people think a pinheaded, whiney voiced idiot like penelope cruz is attractive (i don't either) and changing their opinions on ppl won't work, so don't even bother?
2007-05-24 10:26:27 · answer #6 · answered by Nico 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GET OVER YOURSELF! You have no control over anyone elses opinion. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. Everybody is not like you. For example alot of my friens like Chris Brown and think he is Sexy but i just think he is ok and he can sing and dance. but I dont get all upset because they are saying he is sexy.
2007-05-24 10:31:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To each his own. What makes you think your opinion is the right one? Maybe you are the one with sucky taste
2007-05-24 10:28:19 · answer #8 · answered by angelfish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being selfish and realise that not everyone is the same as you and dont have the same views as you.
2007-05-24 10:26:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋