how can i show my boy friend that i do not care a bout him any more even though inside me i care???

Question

he cheat me

Answer 1

Why would you want to do that? That sounds evil miss dark angel.

Answer 2

Okay, well, for one, Don't tell him that you don't care about him anymore. Things like that could really hurt a guy's feelings, but ease into the conversation. Tell him you think you need a break, because you said that you aren't sure if inside you cared, so this way you'll have opportunity to get back together if desired. Just make sure you don't hurt his feelings, that's never good.

Answer 3

Relationships are hard and your heart can get the best of you. I played his game when I was 22 with a boyfriend who I really cared about..we ended up breaking up. I am now 41, we are still friends and we both have alto of regrets how we acted at that age..but now I have 2 kids with my husband, so that is the past.
Be yourself, don't play games..if you have to much time on your hands..get busy, so you do not focus on just him. If you are in school get a job..if you work..get a 2nd job, volunteer..just to busy your mind, so you do not have to focus on just him!

Answer 4

i don't understand why you would want to show him that you didn't care if you actually do but here are some ways that should work.
don't answer his calls
ignore him when he asks for things
don't love on him
check other guys out in front of him
ditch him to hang out with your friends
act uninterested when he talks about things
get your phone out and call someone right in the middle of a conversation with him

Answer 5

you sound confused about how you feel and need to take some time to yourself and figure out what you want to do. that is what you should tell him not that you dont cae and you do b\c how would you feel if hte shoe was on the other foot. people seem to forget that when it comes to someone else's feelings and thats what you need to take into consideration and he loves and cares for you then he will understand and give you the space you need and if was meant to be then it will be

Answer 6

Umm why do you want to do that in the first place? What's your reasoning behind all of this? That's what I would like to know. But I wouldn't lie and be hateful, honesty I think is the best way to go.

Answer 7

Why do you want to pretend like you don't care, when you do?

Trying to bait someone into chasing you is the wrong way to go about a situation like this.

Assuming that is your goal, obviously. Apologies if it's not the case, but I can't imagine why else you'd want to do something like that.

Answer 8

He's still your Boyfriend? Try to act natural. That your not affected by his actions dont call dont ask him or should i say treat him as you friend.. But i should say you'll loose him if he felt that.. Maybe try to sort things out before taking some actions

Answer 9

thats what my bf did to me too, cheated me, yet despite my harshness towards him i still care abt him every single bits... through my harshness i never fail to shower a lil concern.. telling him i still care.. after all.. you're still you.. you're the man i heart after all..

cheating is undesirable, but theres nothing you can do when he choose to do it that way..

forgive n forget.. after all he's gonna be my once in a lifetime.. after him i cant fell passionately in love with any others..

Answer 10

in my experience guys do not tolerate games and neither should you. it is way too much work and effort to play those mind traps. if the love is not coming easy then let go. like i always tell people "you are not mourning the bad relationship you are mourning the person you wished he was"

Answer 11

Well, I think you should follow your heart. If that's what you meant by "inside", then go with it and your feelings will grow for him again. But it's always possible for you to dump him and spare him the pain!