If your partner/wife/husband was friends with someone of the opposite sex and they used to get on fine but now there is obviously a problem between them would you be worried? Would you think they have just fallen out or there is more to it? Particularly if everytime you raise the question of what is wrong you ended up in a big argument.
2007-05-23 22:30:41 · 16 answers · asked by teddbrhd 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
dont immediately think its your partner that has something to hide i made that mistake with mine and it was my so called mate that had tried it on with him and he had knocked her back she walked round like she hadn't done anything wrong and my other half was mad as hell confront them both together you will soon know who is telling the truth i did
2007-05-23 22:55:20 · answer #1 · answered by janine b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Falling out with/ losing any friend, especially an old friend, no matter what gender, is a tough thing most of the time. Give it some time. If they still can't talk about it in a few months, you could contact the friend to get the scoop, but this could cause you REAL trouble.
If you suspect an affair, maybe mutual friends of the two hold the answers.
2007-05-23 22:51:01 · answer #2 · answered by Always Curious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have heard that you are not suppose to worry when someone gets along with an opposite sex person - but when they start not getting along.
I have a really good guy friend that is getting on my last nerve lately - and I wouldn't want my boyfriend to worry about that because I love him dearly.
I think you should really think aboit it - any other changed in YOU relationship? Usually your instinct will tell you if your man/bf/wife/gf is cheating on you. Any other behavioral changes?
2007-05-23 22:38:03 · answer #3 · answered by so Fresh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. But I have noticed baby boys play "rougher" then baby girls. My 10 month old daughter has played a couple of times with a little baby boy who I have to watch like a hawk. He likes to grab hair, push and basically is just a rough kid. (She probably won't be playing very much with him in the future). On the other hand a baby girl my daughter plays with is great. They will play for a couple of hours and are "gentle" with each other as opposed to the baby boys. It's funny how different they are!
2016-05-21 09:16:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm' there is no smoke without fire. It's either one was juss a frend towards the other and then the other refused to b more than that so obviously one is hurt OR they've simply have been seeing each other and broke up. that's it nothing else!
2007-05-23 22:39:06 · answer #5 · answered by kozykid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!, i would be very concerned as to what as gone on between them, if this was my fella, i think i have a right to know and if there was an argument every time i asked then i would be p****d. cause if nothing has happened why isn't talking to me? good luck
2007-05-23 22:48:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i would definately be a bit suspicious about that. It could be perfectly innocent but I think you have a right to know whats going on there to be honest with you x
2007-05-23 23:27:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey--get a clue--the problem is that you won't leave it alone--and it will never go away if you keep on about it. Your mate's issues with a friend are none of your business--so back off and find something NICE to talk about. If you keep it up you will be the big loser here--she will resent you and that will not be good for the future. Just respect her privacy
2007-05-23 22:36:39 · answer #8 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
even more so as he is so touchy on the subject.
You need to sit him down and get him to explain exactly whats going on. Afterall you do have the right to knowas you are in the relationship to.
2007-05-24 00:11:42 · answer #9 · answered by dancing darlings 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mm, it sounds fishy alright. Be patient and sit tight, it will eventually be revealed. Right now people are still quite upset.
2007-05-24 01:56:12 · answer #10 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋