Many many years ago I went to a party with my then partner we had been together for a year. Half way through the evening he disappeared. I found him upstairs on a bed with another girl they were only kissing but it was the intention that hurt me and the betrayal.
In time I forgave him.....
After I :
Smacked her and him
Locked him out of the house
Had three days of screaming and shouting
Ripped up two of his favourite shirts
And went in the pub and told his friends what he had done (while he was sitting there).
I'd invested time, money, love, my hopes and my trust in that relationship and I felt like he had thrown it all back in my face.
We were never the same again.
I think once something like that happens, if you are an all or nothing person, it cant really limp on after something like that it's time to call it a day..
2007-05-23 22:41:16
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answered by Marilyn's Sister 3
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There is never an excuse for cheating. Ever. I dont care what they say they did it for. They dont deserve your forgiveness, period. Move on to someone who is actually worth your time.
2007-05-23 18:37:23
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answered by Sugarrr Baby 2
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I wouldn't forgive them I'd just find a replacement .
2007-05-23 18:39:20
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answered by Anonymous
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no i don't forgive,he'll be out the door with in 10 min.his stuff is already packed.
2007-05-23 18:38:07
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answered by rebelady28379 7
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Depends on the reason. I'd be heartbroken, and he would have lost my trust, but I love him too much to be without him.
2007-05-23 18:39:45
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answered by Anonymous
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MEN ARE LIKE BUSES ONE COMES BY EVERY 10 MIN.needless to say he.. NO,been there done that if you allow them to cheat once they'll do it again,and again and again.....
2007-05-23 18:38:03
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answered by mamanahe 2
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I would also forgive but not forget.
2007-05-23 18:37:05
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answered by Caribbean Belle 6
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I might forgive, but I'd never forget.
2007-05-23 18:35:26
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answered by RiverGirl 7
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i forgave, but i will never forget. i also told him if it ever happend again i would cut his heart out and step on it, while choking him.
2007-05-23 18:42:06
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answered by Neev 7
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If you really love her, you'll forgive her.
2007-05-23 18:37:50
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answered by Craig G 6
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