Do girls like to be spanked?

Question

With What and why?

Why do girls like to be spanked isn't that weird?

Answer 1

Not all girls and the spanking item of choice will be different for those that do.

Answer 2

The reasons that some people, male or female, enjoy spankings are many, and I could go on for some time before I have covered it all. I've talked about a good bit of this in my blog, if anyone ever wants to check it out.

For some, there is the state referred to commonly as "subspace," which is an endorphin rush created by the controlled pain of a spanking or similar act. This is a euphoric high similar to a "runner's high." It causes a general spaciness, but is also very useful in the control of pain from debilitating conditions. Fibromyalgia, for one, is a common ailment among spankos, and those with the condition use spankings to control the pain that the condition brings with it.

On a sexual note, as Philip K pointed out, the lower bottom (the "sitspot") shares nerves and blood vessels with the genitals. A spanking given here will slowly diffuse the entire region with heat and sensation, leading to arousal. There is also the loss of control when one submits to a spanking, which feeds a need in some people to feel dominated.

Spanking can also be a good source of stress relief. Sometimes, a good cry will vent out a lot of frustrations, but some people just can't allow themselves to cry without help. I've spanked a few young ladies to tears that wanted the cathartic release that tears will bring. A good spanking can also relieve the stress from guilt over a misdeed, allowing a person to feel forgiven for their "crimes."

In some cases, spankings are just a form of lighthearted play that lets a person regress to a childlike state of mischief and repercussions. At spanking parties, this usually takes the form of "bratting" which is when a spankee misbehaves in minor but annoying ways in order to catch the attention of a spanker that they want to play with. I've had the occasional nerfball, suction cup dart or ball of paper smack me in the back of my head, followed by giggles and the scurry of a brat trying to escape. They never make it far, but that's part of the game. They take a few quick swats and "learn their lesson" and are already plotting who they're going to brat next.

And, of course, there are those people that value spankings as a tool for behavior modification. These people know that they need to make changes in their lives, but just don't have quite enough willpower to do it on their own. They rely on a caring spanker in their life to help them stay true to their dreams.

This is a sampling, but there is more presented in my blog, for those that wish to look around.

Answer 3

All depends on the girl. Enough do to make it worthwhile asking her - or if you don't relish posing a frank question, dropping a few hints and seeing how she responds. What with? Most girls who like being spanked love hand-spanking the best - whether you then move on to paddle, hairbrush, etc is up for negotiation. And why? Baka otaku's set this all out pretty thoroughly, so I won't repeat it.

Is it weird? No - just a bit kinky. And that's fun.

Answer 4

Depends on the girl's sexual desire. Some do and some don't. For one you could ask her, respectable but at the same time she might not even know if she likes it herself. Second you could just try, if she likes it, you would know. There are many different reasons why girls like spanking; S&M, the sting, something different, fetish, etc... Easiest and cheapest is your hand. Then you have paddles, rulers, feathers, tassles, be creative and gentle. #1 listen and feel the girl's vibe.

Answer 5

Some do, some don't. I think playful wouldn't be too bad for them, but if you "smack" them good, lol, I don't think they would like that too much. But what it weird about a little spanking.

Answer 6

It really depends actually.

If it's playful and just-for-fun, girls think it's cute. Not with any objects for say, but a little slap never did anyone any harm.

However, rough one's are a major turn-off to the average girl. It seems insensitive and a little too disrespectful..

But it all depends on the girl, because there's always those ones..

Answer 7

When i have sex sometimes i like it ...different... with spanking, hair pulling, scratching and biting but sometimes i can spank my partner in the heat of a moment a few times:-)

Answer 8

Hey as you can tell from the results it varies. Some women like it, some don't. I do it lightly and playfully, and from past experience it tends to be liked. I would never smack it hard, I don't see the enjoyment in that.

But just ask the girl you're seeing! (Once you're under the sheets, not in Starbucks)

Answer 9

There are some girls that do - most don't.

There are certain paddles and a special technique that's used - you don't need to know the details.

It's part of a sex offshoot called sado-masochism, some parts of which are REALLY strange.

Answer 10

A light spank on the but with the hand is good