My biggest successes in life was realizing how very lost and confused most of the people in my life are. How everything from science to religion most be tooken with a grain of salt. That even if you've got a dozen people telling you to do it this way, you have to ask yourself "Why do they think thats the right way for me, why for them?". Instead of just blindly following them. That inorder to be consider a "Man" I have to accept that I'm more then my genitals, that what most ladies consider to be a "Man" is really just that because she calls him one. That if I want to be a "Man" I have to be someone willing to die for pricipals, for purpose, for my family and those I love. Not run away and hide. I've learned that sex is so powerful that the problem with our society isn't that were over sex'd but that we deny that it means anything more then a good time and a pride bust. That the very fundemental differences between fing and making love is my ability to understand, accept, and feel compassion for who I'm with. And most importantly for me. I've learned that work is a game that I have to play because I can't hunt like my ancestors did, that it takes the place of the "hunt". Its a game of survival that I have to play inorder to function in this society, it quite frankly its easy. Because I've learned that people make it harder then it needs to be, I don't have to worry and that gives me a step ahead of my "competition". I've found no successes yet in marriage because I'm not going for the frist lady that shows me love, I've learned that love is something we all have thats not what makes it special. What makes it special is turning that feeling into the actions; compassion and passion. And until I've found a lady who can balance the two and deal with my ramblings, I'll hopfully find some success there. As it is thou most of my generation is hurt, lost, afraid, beating, neglected, and just trying to survive. We might live in a world were the body can get whatever it whats, whenever it whats, but the mind, the soul, is stavered. No meaning, no purpose, just makes us animals in pretty colthes that can do some great tricks. And all this understanding is my greatest success in my life, because it doesn't just help me, but everyone who lets me close enough into their lives to touch them. I can die happy with just that.....
2007-05-25 02:34:49
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answered by Brutal Honesty 7
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