You see, I wan't to be the best I can be. I don't want to change who I am, but I want to be the nicest, most outgoing person I can be, without being too retarded and saying dumb things that aren't funny. And I want to turn in my homework on time and get good grades. I also would like to work on my talents to perfect them and go further with them, such as singing, music, theatre aka acting, and gymnastics. But I also want to keep things organized and cleanly and take good care of myself and look the best I can. But my trouble is, I can do these all average and focus on one thing at a time, but I can get them all done well, just not all at once. I have to start with one, go to two, and so on... so which one should I work on first?
2007-05-23 11:43:35 · 24 answers · asked by lover_not_fighter 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
PERSONLITY.
2007-05-23 11:45:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I admire your courage in asking for help about such a personal issue. Good job. You should focus on each aspect and try your best at each one. However, keep in mind that there is no such thing as being perfect. Everybody falters in one aspect of their life. For example, a Harvard student may have been the smartest student in his high school class, however he may be crabby and not fun to be around. You have to look deep within yourself and ask: What do I want to be remembered for? Personality? Smarts? Talent? Or looks? Don't stress yourself into trying to become "The (Annoying) Perfect Girl." Just be yourself. Maybe you're an excellent gymnast but you're failing Trig. Don't become frustrated with yourself for not being able to transfer your skills on th mat to skills in math. I'm not saying it's okay to fail Trig, just don't take it as such a personal stab in the heart if you're not "perfect" at every aspect of your life.
But to answer your question, I believe personality is the most important.
Good luck and I hope you find the real, awesome, thankfully-not-perfect you!
2007-05-23 11:55:26 · answer #2 · answered by CoolChick2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality.
2007-05-23 11:46:03 · answer #3 · answered by Mo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looks. Personality keeps the looks in place. Because looks is what i see first, my first impression. Smarts. Then talents. But i could care less about those two really.
2007-05-23 11:53:31 · answer #4 · answered by DARIA. - JOINED MAY 2006 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your smarts is the most important because if your in high school or middle school you want to get a scholarship so smarts alwsays come first no matter what. But whatever you do DONT change your personality. People love you no matter who you are. I liked this boy once but he didn't like me but he he liked another girl. So I tryed to be like her but then I gave up because I realized that I wasn't getting anywhere. So I wanted to be myself and guess what? NOW HE LIKES ME!!! So smarts come first bu dont change your personality.
2007-05-23 11:49:17 · answer #5 · answered by lovebug3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personality. without a good one you will not go very far in anything. people need to like you and accept you first .
having a good personality is most important.
2nd is your smarts. having knowledge will get you whatever you apply your self to.
talent 3rd. talent shows people you can do certain things well
and will help you also to get what ever you apply yourself at doing.
lastly. looks. you don't need to be beautiful to get where you want to go unless you looks count . as in beauty pageants. modeling/movies . things like that.
it does help to take care of your self the best you can.
2007-05-23 12:00:58 · answer #6 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks - Natalie Portman, Keira Knightley, and Amy Lee Personality - MOST IMPORTANT THING. Enjoys my sense of humor and I enjoy hers. I can talk about anything with her from really light subjects such as what we ate for lunch and really heavy life changing issues with the same amount of ease. MUST like some of the same music I like.Nice and never talks down to me just to make me feel bad for no reason.HONESTY Talents-Play music, keeps things organized, idk things to keep us entertained and keep are relationship going as a friendship and bf/gf relationship.
2016-04-01 04:51:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that as we live to grow,as your doing,everything comes full circle,on a daily basis. we may not fully recognize that we work on these areas,every single moment,as you have an awareness, you surely will and are the person you need and want to be...keep doing what you do daily, observe the things you do,and you will know what i speak of...keep growing honey, your a wonderful person, i know.
2007-05-23 12:01:59 · answer #8 · answered by Seeking 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smarts, talent then looks. If you just be who you are your personality will shine through and you won't have to work on it at all.
2007-05-23 11:48:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i totally understand you... these are the things i want, too.
you should start with the personality!
cos it helps the others too
if u r not a good person u can't get along with other people
if u r not hard working you can't achieve most of the things you wanna do
2007-05-23 11:48:32 · answer #10 · answered by ozzé 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You dont focus on anything realy b\c then you'll have too many expectations for yourself and yo'll expect too much from yourself.
Just be yourself, just learn to things as you go.Your personality helps you with everything else in your path.
2007-05-23 11:53:23 · answer #11 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋