who here beleives in physical disapline with ur children and y?

Question

i beleive in physical disapline and it works for me i am a single mother and my daughter is bad at times but now i can look at her and she knows im not playing

Answer 1

baby i say whip that a.ss. these kids are to bad now days cuz the parents wants to be there friend instead of parents

Answer 2

I whole heartedly support and condone the removal of skin offin the assquarters of a misbehavin kid. I encourage all to do it more often, in public! [they usually cut up more in public]

The problem is all the sissyfied parents out there who watched Oprah and listened to all that psychobable about using timeout instead of a good beating. That is why all these kids are drinking and driving, killing themselves 3 weeks before they graduate. Their parents didn't beat the fear into them. When I was in high school, I would rather run away from home then come home late, let alone have the remote aroma of alcohol on my person. My mom was all IN my business [like I had any at 15]. I had homework, chores, dinner [with the family], and a 9 pm curfew [until I left home at 18]. Why should kids have fun, unless they've done something to deserve it, like get straight A's? I'm paying all the bills and THEY get to have fun? Oh no. My son will damn sure know better than that.

Answer 3

Physical discipline is sometimes necessary, and can be effective if used as a tool, not as a method. It depends on the child. A wise person once said, "There are three kinds of children:
There are intelligent children. When you tell them not to steal, they don't steal.

There are unintelligent children. When you tell them not to steal, they have to try it anyway. Then, when they get caught and punished, they learn their lesson, and stop.

Then there are the rascals: When you tell them not to steal, they steal. Then, when they get caught and punished, they become angry, but they still steal, and no matter what punishment you give them, they continue to steal until the punishment is so severe, it outweighs their enjoyment for stealing.

A parent has to know what type of child they have. I had three kids, and I had one of each type. I don't believe in smacking a child when simply telling them will do. I don't believe in spanking a child if you can teach the lesson by grounding or taking something from them, or even harsh words. However, when every other tool has been used and exhausted, pain will usually do the trick. Behavior modification often involves pain, even as adults. Pain is a teacher. As parents, it is our responsibility to teach our kids right and wrong, and if we have to utilize pain to help us, then it is better than seeing your child grow up to be a criminal, or a selfish, irresponsible leech, with no respect for authority.

Every parent has dealt with a child who insists on putting his finger in the flame of a candle. Some kids won't do it. All you have to say is "No, that's hot, it will hurt you". Some kids will get close enough to feel the heat, and decide not to do it. Other kids, well, they just HAVE to do it. At some point, they come running, holding the red finger and crying, and you know they put their finger in the flame. You also know they'll never do that again. Why? Because it hurt like hell, and they learned the lesson through pain that you couldn't teach them through words. We know we can't protect our kids from learning painful lessons, and sometimes we have to be the one to bring the painful lesson. If you have a child that doesn't need pain to learn, great. I had one. In her whole life, she got swatted maybe twice. The other two, well, they weren't that smart.

Answer 4

I believe in spankings. I was raised being spanked, and sometimes abused. There is a huge difference in spankings and being abused. My mother was the abuser. I wound up trying to kill her when I was six years old after she beat me bloody one day. My father, though, only spanked us when it was necessary. He had a clearly defined rule set, and when we broke those rules, he got us. It taught us a healthy understanding of the fact that, in life, there are rules we have to follow. It also taught us that there were always consequences for breaking the rules. Moreover, it taught us respect for our parents, considering that one of the rules was that the parents were responsible for us, therefore, they were in charge (i.e. What they said, goes). We learned not to disrespect them the hard way. My dad also told me that If I ever raised a fist to him, he would lay me out like any other man that tried to hit him, and I had better have a place to go when I did, cause I wasn't gonna stay in his house. I think that if more kids were disciplined these days from an early age, with physical discipline as well as other methods, we would not have nearly as much trouble out of kids beating and battering parents as well as the way they disrespect and speak to them. The passage in the bible that says "Spare the rod and spoil the child" is a warning, not a commandment.

Hope this helps...

Answer 5

hello fellow single mum...
i find that i have to use physical discipline sometimes to handle my 9yr old son, he is border line ADD, i choose not to medicate him as i am against giving kids drugs. Sometimes he gets quite testing or silly and if i didn't show my authority, then it would be chaos in our lives, it is because he knows when i reach my point... he'd better watch out, that things are kept to some sort of normality. we have three kids.
Children need to know that i mean whatever i say and i am not afraid to go through with it! children of this generation are, lets say "older" then the children of my era and i am only 30, it seems to me that with all the technology they have access to and human rights they have, children seem to have a knack for running rings around their parents. I do not condone bashing or head slapping (face or head) at all.... but s good whack on the bum never hurt anyone.......
i want my child to grow up understanding respect and boundaries, otherwise he may find himself in lots of trouble as a young man..... it is in his best interest that i discipline him once in a while if he needs it, it is because i care. He loves me so much, and i am a good mum, you can repeat yourself over and over again, but sometimes you just need action!

Answer 6

The Bible recommends it..If you start young then it is very seldom needed but works effectively..
The movement now days that spanking is beating is an exaggeration and wrong.. (Simple man of God) put it right on the button
Spanking is very effective and works well.

Answer 7

i might consult with this baby and clarify why it replaced right into a mistake the 1st time. Then i might have the youngster clarify it lower back to me. Then i might tell the youngster that this replaced right into a intense sufficient mistake to warrant punishment and why, and that i might impose the punishment. i might have the youngster re-clarify the full sequence and promise to no longer do it lower back. on the top, i might say that IF it got here approximately lower back, the 2d time the punishment may well be greater and clarify why, because of the fact now the youngster knew that it replaced into incorrect, and that i may well be arranged to hold this out. i do no longer think in corporal punishment, so the punishment might might desire to extra healthful the infraction and be heavily labored out to be suited in degree. Too many toddlers are abused, even nevertheless we don't choose our toddlers to be out of control.

Answer 8

If you are referring to spanking, then yes I agree with it. Only because when you do 'time-outs' and things with younger children, by the time their punishment is over, they have forgotten what they've done to begin with. If you see them doing wrong and you go ahead and spank them, its instant and they remember the consequences.

Answer 9

You mean like spankings and the like? I support it 100%. I was raised on spankings, and occasionally being slapped in the face, if I mouthed off. It makes you learn your lesson.

Answer 10

My mom spanked me and slapped me and it worked. Unlike all other teens my age I don't drink or go out until after 12 and I don't do drugs.

Answer 11

Yes I do. I was spanked when I was younger and I was hell of a lot more respectful to my elders, I believe, as a result.