Note: that we were seperted because I caught her having an affair. The intent was to divorce.
2007-05-23 08:55:08 · 19 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
FYI:
We weren't married in the Church so leave out of it okay.
2007-05-23 10:04:39 · update #1
yep. The divorce papers have not been signed-so your still legally married and in the eyes of the law it's considered adultry. By the way--two wrongs don't make a right. So if your going to sleep around don't do it out of revenge for her because she probably isn't going to care anyway.
2007-05-23 09:04:01 · answer #1 · answered by Amy L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Separated in uncomplicated terms ability you're no longer residing under a similar roof. Couples separate to make certain in the event that they could artwork out the themes they could desire to salvage the marriage. relationship during a separation IS a affair. the marriage has no longer legally got here to that's end. while a divorce has been filed, that's honest to anticipate all skill is long previous and there is little wish or none at each and every of the marriage will proceed. that's over. After submitting, that's no longer frowned upon to start relationship if one is so vulnerable. some do, others will wait until the that's granted. Others could wait until after that's finalized. wish this helps, stable success.
2016-11-26 20:31:59 · answer #2 · answered by merryman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the terms of your seperation. If you guys are trying to work things out then yes it is an affair because technically you are still together. However if it has been agreed that you can see other people then it is not an affair.
2007-05-23 09:05:31 · answer #3 · answered by poohbear76440 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as your are married in the sight of God, then it is considered adultery. It doesn't matter that you have decided to start your relationships before your divorce is final, an affair is an affair. And it can come back to hunt you in your divorce. Both, of you can suffer consequences before the judge, if infidelity can be proven by either party.
2007-05-23 09:00:46 · answer #4 · answered by stepintostep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seperation is not a divorce. You are still legally married so both you and your wife have had affairs.
2007-05-23 09:12:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on what the two of you agreed on when making the decision to separate, but it sounds like your relationships shouldn't be counted as an affair. But remember, just because your friend jumps off the bridge doesn't mean that you have to too and you can't fight fire with fire.... yatta yatta yatta and all of those other sayings that mean just about the same thing as those two.
2007-05-23 09:16:31 · answer #6 · answered by Chel C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't the two of you, if you have decided to get back together, forget about it all, whatever each of you did, and look forward to the future.
If this is still a separation going toward divorce, then yes, in a legal court of law you had affairs too.
2007-05-23 09:03:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. They are affairs if you are still married regardless to the seperation issue.
2007-05-23 09:03:36 · answer #8 · answered by lwheavenlyangel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
technically, yes it is adultery. most lawyers recommend that in at-fault divorces, the wronged party abstain from relationships until after the decree is granted. Makes the case for the other party that the behavior was normal and customary.
2007-05-23 09:00:58 · answer #9 · answered by Shredded Cottage Cheese 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they should, you should have been working on getting back with your wife instead of seeing it as an open invitation to do the same.
Now I think you two are better off divorced, plain and simple.
2007-05-23 10:40:50 · answer #10 · answered by Unicornrider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋