My Ex-wife says she has no interest in me any longer , but is completely engulfed in my person life. We have two children, so I have to have so ties. The problem is, she will not let it go. She cheated on me several times in the past, which prompted me leaving her. The issue is know. She will go at all costs to make me miserable. She stalks me. She has broken into my office and stole my cell phone records and stalked some of my new femals friends. Any suggestions ?????
2007-05-23 08:08:28 · 12 answers · asked by Rainy Day 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have children so it is really tough. My husband is a family law attorney and he always tells his clients as hard as it is, always be the bigger person. There are kids invoved, ignore her. The old advice actually works, ignore them and they will stop once they realize they are not getting a rise out of you. That is all it is, she is trying to get a rise out of you. Ignore it. It will probably be the hardest thing you will ever have to do because she will get to the point where you just want to scream. If you remain civil, she eventually won't exhaust herself. As far as the intrusion, there are laws against breaking and entering so she better be careful. Just be the best person you can be for your kids, they will never be the same after the divorce, stay sane for them, be strong for them. They will never forget that of you. Than is the best advice you can get.
2007-05-23 08:18:08 · answer #1 · answered by Christylynn P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm I think you and her need to set down and tell her what is going on w/o fighting. Tell her that actions bring consecusenes which I know I didnt spell that right....and that all you wanted is for her not to cheat and now that the papers are filed and signed and that you understand the two kids will not go without that you and her are over. Sure it is gonna make her mad, because she doesnt like not getting her way. She brought this on herself and just stand your ground.
2007-05-23 08:23:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Restraining order. You can get an order that will not interfere with your common children but will prevent her from being near you or any of your properties and new acquaintances. It requires you going to your local magistrates office and showing them your proof of the break-ins and harrassments. You may be able to get an emergency order and show your proof when you get your day in court.
2007-05-23 08:17:13 · answer #3 · answered by t.stewartrulz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she still has some interest to me! You are going to have to be real careful with this one. Keep your cell phone close to you. Be nice to her, but continue to let her know that you guys are getting divorced. Try not to flaunt the new girlfriends in her face and let them know the situation before hand. Good Luck!
2007-05-23 08:15:00 · answer #4 · answered by frawlicious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fatal Attraction...Control Freak she is. Dont do anything irrational..handle it the right way but to make sure things dont get messed up w/your new friends I would warn them or atleast give them a heads up. Are you divorced or working on the divorce? Either way...if she broke into your office you need to file a police report..advise w/your attorney.
2007-05-23 08:20:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Restraining order
2007-05-23 08:12:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Speak with your lawyer! NOW.
Children or not, she shouldn't be hounding you or breaking into your home/office etc.
This is now a matter for the police.
2007-05-23 08:33:48 · answer #7 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well of course see an attorney, have a restraining order against her, you do not need to see her to be with your kids.
this will continue, she is trying to break you.
2007-05-23 08:14:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
registrainin order nd go to court
2007-05-23 08:13:31 · answer #9 · answered by TiiNYDOT 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-05-23 08:18:08 · answer #10 · answered by Gabe Q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋