I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years, we have a 5 month old baby girl. He is an awesome daddy, and a great guy, however...I feel like I am doing it all. Working, cleaning, paying bills buying groceries, paying for daycare etc. He tries to help when he can but he has a lot of bills topay such as insurance,car, and school loans so he can never really throw too much to help me. I know he feels bad about it but it is just wearing me out and I feel it is so not fair that I should have to do this....I don't make that much either. I love him and I don't know what to do, I'm thinking about moving back home with my mom for a little while I just feel bad taking his daughter away, my mom lives 2 hours away. Any advice for me?
2007-05-23 08:08:20 · 6 answers · asked by volcomgrly23 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hon, This makes me angry that guys make babes but fail to realize that supporting the mother and child is their responsibility !Sweetie he had his chance so you do what you gotta do for you ! Does the baby have your last name ? Move on and stay gone until he is ready to step up and be a man !
2007-05-23 08:24:26 · answer #1 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would move back home. If he loves you and his daughter he will move too. Maybe he can get his own place and see how he likes to support himself. With all his bills maybe he should move home with his family too. You are never going to be happy until you make some changes. Dont wait on him to do it.
2007-05-23 08:20:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you cant live with money being that low so your going to move back home and save up. then once enough money is saved, you two can actually start living together normally
2007-05-23 08:20:11 · answer #3 · answered by *just4giggles* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fact : you gave him a child without the benefit of marriage .the fact is you owe him nothing. if you were married then that would be something all together different .do what is best for you and YOUR child
2007-05-23 08:32:48 · answer #4 · answered by henryredwons 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up.
You chose to have the child now.
You chose to have a child with this guy.
You chose your career
You chose to be were you are.
"Not fair"
It was all your choice.
2007-05-23 08:14:58 · answer #5 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you understand that money is tight, but that it is for you too. He should be helping you. Around the house too.
2007-05-23 08:14:32 · answer #6 · answered by lyndsey7323 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋