me 'n' my hubby work all week days 'n' always very busy. we just have time to spend together only in weekends 'n' that free time he spends on watching football, most of the time, i sometimes get bored as i want to talk to him 'n' share things....?
give me the most suitable answer plz what shall i do 'n' how can i make him to talk with me more than watching football.
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2007-05-23 06:58:17 · 36 answers · asked by Priti 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Pritijee - this is a typical eg. of loosing charm in the marital life!! Initially try to involve into his football matches, ie join him in watching it with him!! Then another thing is never stop experimenting in both Kitchen and Bedroom, get back to doing all those wild stuffs you used to during your honeymoontime and intial years of our marriage!!
2007-05-23 08:38:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to turn off the TV first and if he gets mad you tell him "we need to talk" if he doesn't listen and wants to watch football than that is not right so if you want to talk to him you should tell the weekend is the time for you and me and that he can watch whatever he wants later when you two have already spent time together.
P.S.
Don't yell at him or push him into doing
anything he doesn't want to or he will
ignore you
2007-05-23 07:04:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since your married..he should be open in talking with you about different things. If not, then you need to confront him about why. I think you should plan a romantic weekend, with a nice dinner date, movies, etc. It shouldn't cost alot of money and you could spend some quality time together. Let him know how important it is to you to spend time with him once in awhile. Let Saturday afternoons be your "date" day and Sundays be your "relax at home, watching TV" day for him.
2007-05-23 07:02:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a TiVo and tell him to record his damn games... Remind him why you guys feel in love in the first place. There is plenty of time to watch the recorded games when you are not there. Tell him your time together is precious and you want to spend that precious time with your bestfriend (him). Tell him you miss him. Maybe set up a romantic dinner for the two of you and get a porno for the night or something. Let him know you need more then just watching him watch the game. Oh, I know. Tell him he can have his friends to over to watch the game if he spends quality time with you.
GOOD LUCK tho.... I use to fight with my ex about the same thing. It did get annoying.
2007-05-23 07:28:09 · answer #4 · answered by peaches830 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had problems getting though to my husband in the past. So I used reverse psychology and it worked. Join him, watch football with him even if you hate it. Get good snacks prepared, get into the game, yell at touch downs, ask questions and you will be shocked at the out-come. You will be talking more, happier and sharing time together. It will work and you will be surprised how much fun you will have.
2007-05-23 07:12:27 · answer #5 · answered by aintlifegrand 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know one thing dear,when u show more concern to men they behave like this.so frm now om weekends let him watch football and u make urself busy in ur hobbies /favourite pastimes, u can also go to meet ur relatives/friends.u just pretend that u r happy with ur life.then u will see the difference. may be first ime he may not ask u abt it ,but 2-3rd time he will talk to u himself that he is feeling unwanted ,then u can make him realise how did u felt earlier.ok this will work.otherwise if u will just stop him frm watching football ,he will trouble u more.ok all d best
2007-05-23 16:24:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and learn a little about football and watch it with him. If you show your interested in something he enjoys he should appreciate it and respond in kind. Please just don't ask him to go shopping or have a spa day with you. But if you enjoy going to a movie or dancing on the weekend he will be more acceptable after he has had a chance to relax from his busy week.
2007-05-23 07:04:05 · answer #7 · answered by here_comes_trouble_4_you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So find a hobby to do while he's watching TV.
Then when the games are over, you two can sit and shoot the breeze during dinner.
Also, run the idea by him that he's limited to so many hours of football per day and the rest of the time he and you find quiet time together.
2007-05-23 07:05:39 · answer #8 · answered by Ella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you really feel. Try to compromise. Still give him his football time but express to him that in a good relationship you have to have comunication. Maybe try to get him out of the house just the two of you. A nice walk, dinner somewhere you can talk.
2007-05-23 07:02:30 · answer #9 · answered by Nazymom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Share with him your feelings, without being accusatory. Tell him you want to share more of your time with him and that you hope he feels the same way. Then make arrangements to do something special--away from home and the TV. Do this at least every couple of weeks.
If that fails, buy a Tivo and tell him he can watch the game on his time--then drag him to the bedroom--whatever happens there is up to you. :-)
2007-05-23 07:04:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋