I try explaining to my husband that I have no sex drive right now. I will be 50 soon and am on hormone replacement therapy because I was going into menopause. I am diabetic, as well. He is so unromantic, too. I have just lost my desire for him or for anyone, for that matter. I never think about sex. He acts like I should want him whenever he wants "it." I don't think that way. To add to the problem...he does not have any romance about him. I have talked with him and explained myself, but it is like what I tell him falls on deaf ears. By the way, we have been married for 17 years and have seven children between our prior and present marriages. I want to desire him, but it just isn't happening. How do the rest of you who are like me handle this. He just gets upset that I don't have more interests in sex with him. Help!!!
2007-05-23 03:59:56 · 1 answers · asked by BLM 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
you both would benefit from marriage counselling.
2007-05-23 04:03:42 · answer #1 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋