10 weeks old, SIDS
2007-05-23 03:57:42 · 10 answers · asked by nurse6sw 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
There is time to grieve and their is time to let go. You and God are the only ones to know when it is time to let go and move on.
It is hard for us as humans to understand and accept death. We rejoice when a baby is born but why do we not rejoice when a loved one dies? We know we are only here temporary.
In reality we do live in a harsh world and I am sure your grandson is in a much better place. No more suffering and for this you should find some peace in your heart in order to start accepting his departure. I am sure he is looking at all that is around and I don't think he likes for his loved ones to be sad.
Smile he is watching. God bless
2007-05-23 04:05:46 · answer #1 · answered by texaslittleangel75 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are many hospitals that offer grief counseling for SIDs. There are also a lot of mommy groups that meet on this issue. It might help to talk to another mom or grandma that has been through this. I am very sorry for your loss. I can not even imagine what you must be feeling right now. Hang in there I will pray for you!
2007-05-23 11:08:04 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sooooo sorry for the loss. Hearing of this makes me want to cry. I am remebered of the days my twins stayed in the hospital for over a month as premies. Everyday was a battle but I could only pray. There is no one that can bring you true comfort and peace except the Lord. He knows what he is doing and we can only trust in him. There are however support groupd when things like this happend. You can try looking on the net or you can call 211 from your home phone and see if they know of any mission or groups that hold support meetings for these tragedies. May God be with you and you are in my prayers.
2007-05-23 11:04:57 · answer #3 · answered by zimzigger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First start with your family and friends since they are the closest to you and will know of the pain you are going through. If you don't feel really comfortable talking to them or if you feel like a burden (and yes it does happen, some people feel like that) then there are websites out there that have other people who have gone through the same experience and you will be able to comfort and talk about your feelings, just not face to face. When my husband passed away in 2003 that is what I did and I found it really helped me to sit at the computer and talk to people who had lossed their husbands. I really hope this helps you out and that you find in time, the pain will soften up, I know it will never go away, but it will get easier. My prayers are with you dear.
2007-05-23 11:09:03 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your loss. I know it is one of the most painful things one can go through. I lost my daughter about 2 months ago...she was stillborn due to a NTD and I was 5 1/2 months. It was the hardest thing for me Ive ever been through. All I can say is that its really no ones fault. It seems during times like this we want someone to blame or something...and the truth is there is no one to blame. Things happen...even unfair bad things and unfortunatly one cannot do anything about it. Its going to take time and it may never stop hurting but know that you will see him again one day. he knew how much everyone loved him....my prayers are with you and your family.
2007-05-23 11:07:58 · answer #5 · answered by dreamer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so very sorry.....but there is no generic way to cope with death. You have to do what makes it better for you.
Something that is very helpful is joining a group of parents & grandparents who have gone through this already.....you help each other....because they know what you're going through.
2007-05-23 11:01:58 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself in the parents' shoes, YOUR CHILD'S shoes and know that they need to you, to help them cope with their loss.
2007-05-23 11:16:42 · answer #7 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm so very sorry, i can't imagine what you are going through. maybe try some grief counsilling?
2007-05-23 11:04:26 · answer #8 · answered by CAROLINE J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
professional counslers, hospital chaplians, holy figures ,priests, father, nuns, whatever religion you are..., close friends, family.
2007-05-23 11:01:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry, and I am praying for you right now.
2007-05-23 11:02:43 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋