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This morning I found an old email from my sister telling me that her dog was dying of cancer. Her dog died 6 months later. A few months after that her bf left her for another woman. One month after that she killed herself.

Just not feeling very funny today.

2007-05-23 03:35:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music Polls & Surveys

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I'm about to cry now. But I know how you feel. I have only lost one person in my life. Last April 13 I was three months pregnant and lost the baby. It was so hard on me. I still go back and forth with what I could have done different. It seems easy to think it was your fault. Then sometimes I get angry- I know it's not right but when I hear about someone having a baby and how excited they are and Some times I just can't bring my self to really be happy for them. I would think how people have baby's that don't need them or don't want them and I was mad at God for giving them heathy children and took mine. Death is one of those things that stirs up emotions you didn't know you had. But even though it still hurts I haven't let that anger take over and that I think is a big part of the process. I'm sure people think I'm silly because I never really met my child but it was still apart of me and there are attatchments. ~ But I beg you not to be mad with your sister. No one could have helped her but herself. I've been there and struggled.

2007-05-23 04:42:32 · answer #1 · answered by ktychaos13 4 · 0 0

What do you mean what did you do to deserve this? You dumped a guy who loves you to get a kiss from some jerk. I doubt you'll want to hear this but you really had it coming. A person who would dump a guy who loves her to get a kiss, not even a date or a relationhsip, just a freakin' kiss from some guy on Valentine's Day deserves to not get a kiss, or be taken back by the guy she dumped, or get a gift on Valentine's Day. Grow up and learn from this. Don't throw away a good relationship with a nice guy to chase after a crush. What you did was no better than the middle aged man who cheats on his wife of twenty years for a fling with a 19 year old girl.

2016-05-20 22:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

I am sorry for that it sucks to start your day that way losing loved ones is something you just don't get over sometimes it feels like it happened just yesterday I know have been there I did a people search on myself the other day (super bored) it listed my parents as still living and the ages they would be now totally freaked me out and made me really sad. Wish I could cheer you up

2007-05-23 03:51:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

That just happened on Mother's day weekend. It was the one year anniversary of finding out that my ex had been cheating on me. It just put me in a funk for almost a week. Finally starting to feel a little better about everything again.

2007-05-23 03:55:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

oh my god. I am so sorry I can't imagine losing my sister. I'll be thinking about you all day. I lost a parent a few years ago and I know how hard that was, but to lose a sister seems almost worse.

2007-05-23 03:45:07 · answer #5 · answered by Sour Girl 5 · 0 0

Oooooh...that is pretty bad news.

When I get a lot of negative thoughts in my head, the only cure that's foolproof is prayer. I can't possibly solve the problems or even carry them in my head without divine help.

2007-05-23 05:39:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

The past can tend to plague me also. When it does I usually turn my thoughts to someone I can help. If I don't ,I can easily slip into the mire of self. For me that is a dangerous swamp.

2007-05-23 03:47:16 · answer #7 · answered by asmikeocsit 7 · 0 0

Hey man sorry for that. Wanna go choke some people with me? It aways brightens my day.

2007-05-23 03:48:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I am so sorry for your loss. I pray it gets a little easier for you.I do not know what I could say to make you feel a little better.But if you need someone to just correspond with please e-mail me.

2007-05-23 03:47:23 · answer #9 · answered by Dixie 6 · 0 0

I am sorry for your loss, my dad passed away 14 years ago, it still feels like yesterday.. *hug*

2007-05-23 03:39:16 · answer #10 · answered by gone 7 · 0 0

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