I am having relationship issues...my girlfriend recently told me that because of the distance she can't stay with me. That...she needs someone to be close. But she says she loves me. She wants time to "have fun" and says we should see other people and see where that leads. But if she sees other people i don't want to be with her. I love her a lot...i don't know what to do.
2007-05-23 03:18:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Uhh, your up a creek with out a paddle mate. Just give up and swim a'shore. Your girl Is basicly telling you she wants to brake up and mabey come back later, find another girl mate. Don't worry Females make 55% of the population. Theirs others out their and good luck mate.
2007-05-23 03:23:05 · answer #1 · answered by RWAR. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to burst your bubble but it sounds to me like she is tryin to break up with you. If there is distance between you two and she has a problem with that and all of a sudden she wants to see other people, she is trying to fill the hole where you are "supposed" to be, but can't because you guys live too far from one another. Did you tell her you didn't want to be with her if she wanted to see other people? If she agrees with that with no problem, then I think she wants to move on. I could be wrong, but thats what i got from the info that you gave!!
2007-05-23 10:23:08 · answer #2 · answered by nuniestar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get a new girlfriend. It sounds like she has already cheated on you. Time to have fun means sleeping around on you. It sounds like she is long gone. But if you wanna screw with her head tell her that she is right. You want to see other girls and that you HAVE been seeing other girls. Make up stories about going to parties and hooking up with other chicks. Either she will be cool with it or she will be jealous. Either way she will be gone
2007-05-23 10:27:45 · answer #3 · answered by UnderTigger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its long distance man she probably has meet another guy and wants him to fill that void that you cant from a long distance relationship. And u shouldnt wait for her at all, if she really loves you and you her than talk to her. tell her its not the best thing for your relationship than see where that takes off. if it doesnt than man you got to move on and play the field man. hopefully you guys stay together and you dont have to.
2007-05-23 10:24:28 · answer #4 · answered by T Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is stop being so clingy, and join us in the 21st century. Open relations are better and stronger. Is it so hard for young people to overcome the centuries old programing of taboo - they are out-dated. So long as everyone is safe about what they are doing ... why do you think you need to possess her solely? Look at it this way - now you get to be with more than one chick.
2007-05-23 10:24:21 · answer #5 · answered by Edhelosa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I've been in this situation and I let the other person go and I move on. It's not the most fun thing to do , but if you don't you're cheating yourself out of meeting someone who really likes you etc...keep your options open, do want you want to do; let her go. Good luck!
2007-05-23 10:22:28 · answer #6 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over. She's trying to let you down easy. Long distance relationships almost never work. Move on.
2007-05-23 10:22:03 · answer #7 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLLLLO! this woman is giving you permission to sleep with other people.. without actually saying it.. Let the b!tch go and **** some more people.. maybe she hasnt had all the joys in life, and maybe you havent either. so you both should go out there and have more sex and more relationship to see what you like and what you dont like.
2007-05-23 10:23:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she really loves you why would she want to see other people. i think you need to move on. I know thats not what you want to hear but its better to go now that hurt more later the longer your together the worse it will get
2007-05-23 10:38:53 · answer #9 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i want o see other people but i love my boyfriend...i dunno..i need time to think...time to go out and be happy..im feeling like i cant breathe...smootheremaybe thats how she feels
2007-05-23 10:21:44 · answer #10 · answered by mexican0k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋