Ok so i met this guy at work and we hit it off. he wasnt and still isnt easy to deal with or anything but he was fun to talk to. So we became friends and everything. THen he started to like me and although i did like him at one point, it wasnt the way i felt for him anymore and it upset him. He keeps telling me im not living in reality, and every chance he gets no matter how blunt i am to tell him to leave me alone and to stop talking to me, becasue it has gotten to the point where he just wont leave me alone, we cant have a normal conversation anymore. He critizes me, calls me names, and worse tells me that im insane and that i should be committed. hes always telling me that he doesnt want to talk to me anymore then i was like ok, bye. and then he gets mad. I dont understand this at all! im starting to become frustrated, and the worse part is i have to work with him on a regular basis. at work it isnt as bad but outside of work he calls me 2 times at least, and he wont stop IMing me.
2007-05-23 03:05:56 · 11 answers · asked by allergic to love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Change your number and block him from im-ing you, first of all.
Ignore him entirely as well.
Second, talk to your boss about reshedualing one of you and be sure to inform him of your co-workers behavior, so he knows why your performance at work might be suffering. if you're getting scared of him, talk to the police and maybe get a restraining order, or at least report his abusive behavior because what he's doing sounds like the first steps in a complete, unsafe obsession.
i really hope everything works out for you...i know what you're going through
2007-05-23 03:10:59 · answer #1 · answered by sofia 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-31 04:25:15 · answer #2 · answered by student 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is stalking you. I think you should tell him that you are not interested in him and that he is scaring you. Maybe the best thing is to no longer talk to him and ignore him. Delete his messaging and don't even make eye contact with him. Pass him as if you don't even know him. When he tries to call you just hang up and walk away from him when he tries to talk to you. I think he is one of those guys that feeds on your reaction of you to what he does and says. Try your hardest to stand your ground and follow these instructions. If that does not work then, you have to get the police involved. Stalking is crime in most states.
2007-05-23 03:20:15 · answer #3 · answered by Freckled aquarius 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have 2 words for him, "restraining order". If he is so verbally abusive to you why do you care what he thinks anyway. Spell it out to him and if he doesn't back off threaten to tell your boss.
As for the IMs why don't you just block him? When he sends you an e-mail don't open it and mark it as spam. Good luck, you'll need it!
2007-05-23 03:12:25 · answer #4 · answered by Bethany I 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is called stalking....either report him and or...do not respond to ANY of his remarks, calls, texts etc etc...when he sees he can no longer get a rise out of you it will probably let up..be on the safe side though, tell him you are not interested, you have no feelings of either friendship or a relationship and if he does not stop you will report it to your supervisor and or the police....and then do it...
2007-05-23 03:11:41 · answer #5 · answered by jonni_hayes 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u turn him on! now u cant turn him off....change ur # talk to the police tell them u just want him to leave u alone or else...court!
dont talk no more to himhe sats some thing to u call the police.
2007-05-23 03:13:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He won't stop, because you are allowing him to continue! And why are you doing that? Do you like the attention? Because, you're really doing a poor job of convincing us that you don't know how to "ignore" someone, "avoid" someone, "report" someone, and "block" them from your message box. Take some responsibility!
2007-05-23 03:21:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Go to the police.
2007-05-23 03:13:29 · answer #8 · answered by Carol B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can block him on your IM's...You can get your numbers changed...Ignore him and after a while he will get the hint
2007-05-23 03:12:57 · answer #9 · answered by plumprump26 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u just hv to b blunt with such people. he will try to force u to bend on ur decision. If it still dsnt work, tell him ur seing another guy and ur very happy with him and even he shud move on.
2007-05-23 03:11:24 · answer #10 · answered by sash 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋