to find nice friends these days?
2007-05-23 03:02:37 · 30 answers · asked by Pnut1980 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
That is a helluva good question!
It's probably because these days, people aren't really looking for "friends". They are more interrested in hanging out with someone who can get them something, or get them somewhere. And not someone they can just have a good time with.
2007-05-23 03:06:21 · answer #1 · answered by Jason The Great 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most people only look out for themselves, and rarely care about how others feel, what they do, think or say. It's sad really. I'm lucky that I have great friends. I think I'm a great friend also. I have always been the type to put everyone else before myself. I have a lot of compassion of people in general.
Hope you find a nice friend
2007-05-23 10:20:00 · answer #2 · answered by spicy_salsa69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a problem with finding nice friends to. I don't know why it's hard. I think people are so cot up in their selves now a days. People are trying to keep up with the Jones. Their so busy with their on insecurities and competing with each other that they are rude with thinking sometimes. Me personally I don't care where you live your home whether you have money or not or a degree. I'll except you for who are, because of this and their insecurities I've been screwed many times. I think sometimes that's because I don't make people compete with me I treat them as my equal. I just pray all this will change and people will remember one of the golden rules. " Treat people as you want to be treated". For my kids sake I hope it change.
2007-05-23 10:23:57 · answer #3 · answered by dizzymom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard 2 find a friend, because people don't believe in LOYALTY anymore! They are 2 busy stabbing u in the back are being jealous of u-2 really respect u the same as u do them.
2007-05-23 10:10:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have two very good friends and I am happy with that. However, I agree with you. So many people are self centered and ignorant these days. I think this is a result of parents not instilling these values into their children. Parents are so free and lacking structure in raising their kids these day. I am proud to say it is a priority of mine to raise my children with good Christian values and to respect others.
2007-05-23 10:10:06 · answer #5 · answered by Beepsteroni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I had the answer to that. I have one friend that I've had for 15 years, and we have rarely live near each, although she just moved her in April from Alaska. I don't trust many people, or open up, so that could be MY reason!
2007-05-23 10:05:32 · answer #6 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause a true friend is just not possible now these days its really hard too trust someone and most people you thought were your friends are not even worth to be,When you find one keep them cause their hard to find.
2007-05-23 10:08:52 · answer #7 · answered by carin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We live in a time of 'get you before you get me',identify theft,and we are taught not to trust anyone that we don't already know.Sadly,most people are out to use you or hurt you so the only thing that you can do is be choosy about who you are kind to and watch your back.I blame the media.
2007-05-23 10:08:26 · answer #8 · answered by chris99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because a lot of people are liars. Or, they tell you what they think you want to hear. Or, they are selfish and only thinking about themselves. Wow, I could go on and on.
I'm a good friend, though...I try really hard to be!!
2007-05-23 10:05:58 · answer #9 · answered by Missy (aka: La Tigres) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People tend to look for the wrong things when searching for a friend. Look for people with good hearts and not those who seem shallow.
2007-05-23 10:10:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋