Dead or not?

Question

My life rots . My parents wish that I will die, because of my poor results . My friends hates me . I want to commit suicide . What is the best painless and way ? And should I die , or there is another way of solving the problem ?

Answer 1

Suicide is never the answer,however i can't give you a solution based on what you have posted here.I don't know enough.I doubt you parents wish you would die,if they do they are the one with problems.Find someone to talk to a profeesional a guidance counselor if you are in school,if not there are free mental health clinics.I honestly hope no one would offer you advice on how to off yourself,but someone may there are cruel people in this world.I implore you don't take it. Life will not always be sunshine but it can't rain everyday.Just hold on and things can get better,you just have to work for it.

Answer 2

Dying is the absolute easiest way out of the issue, there are million other ways to solve the problem. I don't know why all this stuff is happening, you weren't very detailed. The best way isn't painless unless you choose it to be. Life involves more than just the people around you. You don't know who you are do you? You can't truly have meaningful relationships with anybody if you don't even know yourself.
I highly doubt that your parents wish you would die over results. Even if they defied their parental instincts they wouldn't hate you for such a meager reason. I think that you are more mad with yourself than you parents are. They, like most parents want what is best, and they must know that you could have done much better. Hatred is just a secondary emotion for hurt, human behavior isn't a mystery anymore we all act and respond differently but for the same reasons. If you did something to them, anything that you wouldn't want someone to do to you then they could very possibly be hurt by it and choose out of fear of being vulnerable to show anger or hate. Another reason your friends may have is that they feel intimidated by you in some way or another and again to avoid vulnerability they respond to you with anger or jealousy. They could also feel uncomfortable around you for the choices you make or don't make and instead of standing up for how they feel they choose again to hold it against you without you knowing exactly what is going on, which by the way increases poor behavior when it comes to making choices. No matter what happened you still need to be accountable for your end of the issue. Knowing what you did and why you did it then choosing to do something different is a good start. With everything you have the privilege of; you would think that all of that would be enough. You got yourself into an issue and of course the easiest and shortest way would be suicide but how many things have you done the short and easy way that you ended feeling accomplished, smart, responsible or honest? I think that you have some questions to answer yourself

Answer 3

To start No, you shouldn't die. I'm sure your parents don't "hate" you. It is possible they don't like what you are doing and afraid for you. Friends, well one can always find new friends. You need to seek Professional help ASAP! call your mental health association and tell them what you've written here. See your Doctor if possible. You'll be surprised at how many people want to reach out and help you. Let them! If you truly wanted to die you'd have not taken the time to post your question. So many people will reach out to you and try to guide you. That means we care, you are a worthwhile person. I hope you mend and find joy in your life again. Good Luck

Answer 4

They may act like morons in your view, but I promise you your parents love you.. if your friends truly hate you.. hang out with different people... Suicide is not a solution.. it hurts everyone you would NEVER want to hurt.. the whole point of life is to live it.. we all have ups and downs.. do good and do bad.. we have shame and we have pride.. learning to deal with these things takes time.. but it will come.. and you will be a happy, healthy person. Talk to your parents.. tell them how you feel.

Answer 5

I think sometimes we feel like we are up against a brick wall and can't see past into the future, and the fun times. If you go to a hospital and talk to someone, sometimes that letting out of emotion can help you feel renewed. Try every avenue to get better. There would be lots of people who would be devastated if you were to pass away.

Answer 6

Your parents don't wish that you would die!
Your friends don't hate you!
You being dead solves no purpose and you would be sorely missed, and it would be a terrible waste ;)
If you still feel terrible, talk to somebody,
trust me, life has it's ups and downs,
everything will be ok XX

Answer 7

Life gives you hard times and once you get through them you will get stronger and stronger..you get to a point where you feel no pain anymore and will stop caring so much...I have been in your situation many times and these "friends" aren't truely friends at all now are they? Don't give up just yet ending your life will only hurt others would you want to participate in an act of selfishness....I don't think so...

Life sucks... then it can only get better...Remember this...
Good Luck

Answer 8

This is crazy.
First, I can't believe parents wont their child to die because of bad results.
And second, if you really wanted to kill yourself, you would have don it already in staid of waiting for us to tell you how to do it.

Answer 9

You need help; call your doctor and ask for a referral to a psychiatrist.

Answer 10

don't waste your gift of life..maybe you should start all over again..and the best thing to do is to move to a new place..