I lost my ex 7 months ago, shes wit sum1else but we r still in love i was very ill and it all got in a mess, i dont think i deserve 2 lose her over that, am i wrong???
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she didnt know i was sick but i did and cudnt explain wat was happening, r family hurt her cus things got in a mess but ive been told wats wrong wit me and that i wasnt able to control things, cant seem 2 explain thow, we r both 20 her new fella is only 17. i adressed all r issues including stopping drinking, the prob is i have a double spinal injury which was causing a lot of probs including blurred vision, i got very ill and my mum may have cancer again, we will know 2morrow
2007-05-23 02:31:35 · 7 answers · asked by Paddy I 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Man, I'm sorry you are having such a tough time with your health and now your Mom. From what you said you definitely didn't deserve to lose her. Just know that some people don't handle illness very well and you want someone who will stand by you and stay with you through thick and thin no matter what. If she still loves you, she should come back and apologize to you for not being there when you needed her most. Feel better and I hope your Mom will be alright.
2007-05-23 02:38:43 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know if you deserved it .... no one can tell from just knowing a sentence's worth of your relationship. But, it IS over so you need to try and move past it and focus on the important things in your life right now. There WILL be more girls, I promise!
2007-05-23 09:39:51 · answer #2 · answered by naniannie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is apparent from you profile that you are in the habit of asking this question on and on. I suggest that you consult a Psychiatrist without wasting any more time.
2007-05-23 10:08:49 · answer #3 · answered by venkashok 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone loves you and truely cares about you they'll be there for you know matter what your going through and with you being sick and all that stuff she should of really stuck by you....her loss, no you did not deserve to loose her but do you deserve someone who;ll be there for you no matter what? yes.....
2007-05-23 09:45:41 · answer #4 · answered by Nita and Michael 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth and let her decide. That is a lot of stress to expect one person to want to deal with.
2007-05-23 09:38:27 · answer #5 · answered by Summer B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really tell her what happened, and let her make the decision
2007-05-23 09:36:31 · answer #6 · answered by smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should love you regardless
2007-05-23 09:34:32 · answer #7 · answered by SHOOT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋