I was in for a legitimate massage for a back strain at a place that looked legit. But as time was running out, the masseusse grabbed my manhood and starting stroking. It caught me so off guard I didn't know what to do and blew my load almost immediately. Since I didn't go there for it, and didn't ask for it, this couldn't be cheating right? I didn't even have time to enjoy it. But at the same time, she was such a cute asian girl that I can't get it out of my mind now.
2007-05-22 16:46:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Some info to some of the questions people have brought up:
1. No, I didn't tip and got the hell outta there.
2. The place looked like an office, not the trashy looking places you see in the movies.
3. The masseuse was likely born here as she had no accent, wore the same smock as my doctor and had a license on the wall.
2007-05-23 13:36:18 · update #1
if it really was as you described - you are a victim here:-)
but if you went there on purpose - its cheating, anything sexual is cheating.
2007-05-22 22:52:18 · answer #1 · answered by Natalie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't stop her when she grabbed it and you could have. Sorry bud - you cheated...especially because now you are enjoying the thought of it - and can't stop thinking about it. I imagine you will go back for 2nds...3rds...4ths...5ths....
How would you like it if your wife got off by another man giving her a massage who started rubbing her privates...and she didn't do a thing to stop him?? Put yourself in that situation - and see how your wife might feel if she found out.
For this to be 100% innocent - you would have grabbed her immediately and stopped her...and if you couldn't have stopped her before you blew, you would have reported her to the state. She gives the few legitimate masseusses out there bad reputations.
You are just looking for justification for your wrongdoing. You probably tipped her too.
2007-05-23 01:10:06 · answer #2 · answered by Sandy S 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Now you are feeling guilty, Right!
Asking questions would have been a good idea before this happened. The truth is when she grabbed hold of your manliness, that would have been the time to jump up and say no. Pretty hard to resist feeling like that and they are skilled at pleasuring you. Now that it happen, if you go back, your act would be premeditated. Now what would Jesus say. Neither do I judge you, Go and sin no more. Chalk it up to a lesson and forget about it, Not to mention it to anyone again.
Can you do that. If you confess it to you partner, you may destroy a relationship. In my opinion don't. It would only serve your release of guilt and hurt another. Go and sin no more.
Rev. TomCat
2007-05-22 23:56:55 · answer #3 · answered by Rev. TomCat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ARe you kidding me? Yes, it is cheating, the minute she grabbed you, you didn't get off, you had time to say Hey, I'm married or with someone. You can't justify this to anyone, especially the one you are with. Now you are thinking of her? Shame on you, you can't control your actions. We have a brain for a reason. Maybe yours isn't in the right place but we all have them. No legit place would hire anyone to do that, you could have sued them. You knew where you were going and now you want our forgiveness. No way! Would you let it slide if your partner did it with someone else? If you would, you shouldn't be together. Grow up, are you a man or a boy?
2007-05-22 23:53:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Are you really that naive that upon going to a "legitiment" massage parlor with asian girls working in it you didn't think you'd get your manhood stroked?? C'mon now, even I'm not that dumb! If you really are telling the truth and didn't have any idea, explain to the wife, never go back and you should be free and clear of any guilty thoughts. Good Luck!
2007-05-22 23:53:28 · answer #5 · answered by Hilda 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be real -cheating has no happy endings-nor does being drunk.
this is what helped me most to do the right thing -but once I was into the wrong thing myself=how I found something better was seeking true love from above.
Romans 1 teaches that by unthankfulness two will worship each other instead of the creator, and do what is unseamly female with female and male with male.
Ist Corinthians gives the answer and delivered me took, "and such were some of you, but you have been cleansed by the blood of Jesus."
I will be praying for you, peacd in Jesus amazing grace that saved me =John 3 thanked Jesus for dying for my sins, even one lie and offering to come into my heart and being my best friend, when I repented and let him in to be my friend and get born again. Revelation 3:19&20 tells Jesus love to us and his knocking on our heart door to come in deliver from sin and be our best friend, when we ask him in.
I prayed "Jesus Im sorry for letting you down, help me, come into my heart and be my friend, amen."
a new life for me began with Jesus my best friend and I claimed the blood of Jesus over my thoughts and the deamons that had me flee when they hear my heart prayer of the blood of Jesus to rebuke them. Life is grand truely happy now for me.
2007-05-22 23:51:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you said you didn't know, and you didn't expect it, then no its not cheating. But go back there and it is!
And boy you must be the original minute man to have no time to say STOP!
2007-05-22 23:50:04 · answer #7 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since you didnt know it was going to happen and it caught you offguard i dont consider it to be cheating. however, if you continue to go back for the same thing, it will be considered cheating. watch what you do.
2007-05-22 23:51:11 · answer #8 · answered by Allison 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's cheating, you could have stopped it. Quit lying to yourself about being helpless. Also, those "non legit" places don't just do that stuff. You have to pay for it upfront.
2007-05-22 23:51:09 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nah.. she must been a horny little Asian girl. blowing your load ain't cheating. too bad you didn't enjoy it. lol.. you would've felt worse if you let her ride you..
2007-05-22 23:52:17 · answer #10 · answered by isLand Princess 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋