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I was asked this by a charming, colored man and I answered yes because "the heart wants what the heart wants"... no?

2007-05-22 16:33:22 · 17 answers · asked by Dani 3 in Social Science Other - Social Science

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I believe in all relationships, if they are based on true love and commitment. It really doesn't matter what color you are on the outside. We are all human beings on the inside. Love is all that matters, even though I know some people will disagree with me.

2007-05-22 16:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I don't know what "believe in them" means but being of different races, religions or whatever brings an additional degree of strain to any relationship. However, in recent years that strain is much less than it used to be.

If both are good people and love each other and are up to the task of dealing with those that have difficulty accepting interracial relationships (such difficulty is found in all races) then they should go for it.

To directly answer the question to my best ability, there is nothing wrong with interracial relationships but there are still people who will react negatively. This includes family members, associates and general public. You cannot pretend that is not the case and be able to deal with it.

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2007-05-23 12:37:39 · answer #2 · answered by Jacob W 7 · 1 0

For Love, race is only a social construction. Inter-racial relationships are most often based on deeper Love because persons need more commitment to be willing to confront the stigma that some people give to the mixing of the races.

Eros mixes the races. History proves this. Most, if not all, family lineages have experienced some "racial" mixture. The races will only get more mixed. Because of hate, some people are afraid of the future of race, but racist hate will be resolved with Love.

2007-05-23 02:23:15 · answer #3 · answered by 2Bright2LiveinDarkness 3 · 2 0

If you have to ask this question, you shouldn't be in one. The heart can tell you whatever it wants but the head should be telling you that our opinion doesn't count. If you are going to date a "coloured" man, you better stop worrying about what we or any body else out there thinks.

2007-05-26 02:03:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

IF both parties understand and are willing to accept that many people object to it and may do stupid things or make stupid remarks about it, That there are cultural differences that will make the joining of two people even harder as traditions begin to clash with each other. I feel that these differences are resolvable problems that can be worked through if the couple is committed and love each other.

2007-05-22 23:42:52 · answer #5 · answered by Gardner? 6 · 1 0

"Colored" is not an appropriate term for referring to an African-American. I assume that since you don't know that, your family, friends, and acquantances will not be very open to this relationship. There is nothing wrong with interracial dating, I assume that the man who asked you out can update you on proper terms for different races.

2007-05-22 23:43:55 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa W 3 · 1 2

Hell no. Interracial relationships are the beginning of the end for a race. Nothing more disgusting than an half breed. Have some pride in your ancestors.

2007-05-24 09:46:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 4

I believe that they exist; I've experienced some jungle fever in my lifetime. But, now for me I prefer pink on white vs. brown on brown.

2007-05-22 23:39:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

yes. the fact that you have to question it at all shows that there is a part of you that is not comfortable with it, like you're looking for someone to give you the ok.

2007-05-22 23:45:15 · answer #9 · answered by mollster 2 · 0 1

do i believe in them like do i believe in god, the easter bunny, and santa? or do i agree with them? because obviously, they exist, therefore i have to "believe" in them. Do i agree with them? People do what people do and its no ones business, so everyone can do what they want.

2007-05-23 02:30:58 · answer #10 · answered by wickedwings1982 3 · 1 0

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