Help goin crazi!!!?

Question

Im 33 weeks preg. Im sick of siting at home and have gotten a lil spruce of energy here lately and I can't seem to find anything im aloud to do.. except go to movies, walks and shopping... Ive gotten a pedicure & manicure yesterday but i feel it isnt enough. I want excitement.. happiness... I want to do something/ make myself useful other then house work.. I sit here everyday and im going nuts.. My old man goes to concerts, work parties, bars and clubs and im getting tired of not having any communication except w/ myself. I cant go camping cuz of my sleeping habbits this suxs and suggestion any1.. Ohh and i went on a shopping spree yesterday and spent 750 on baby stuff shes gotten everything i can think of...

Im basically considered a teen I 19 and not married im engaged but im not a very good role model.. Only thing different is I go to college full time... 14 hrs. a week

b-cuz i told him to get his running in now b-cuz when our lil one comes there is no more running considering he works anywhere from 12 hours some times over.. 5 days a week and is very busy w/ his job some times week ends and honestly I cant stand too look at him right now lol... b-cuz he can do all this stuff.. and i cant..

I tride sewing and yarning i actually got pissed at it and decided to leave it up to his mom to do all the quilting she made me an osu blanket its adorable.. Ohh I bargin shopped I went to walmart and value city and jc penny outlet... The majorty of that money was for a traveling set and an extra car seat

Answer 1

I was 17 when I had my first baby. I have been where you are, girl! You know, there are really a lot of things that you can do. Maybe the evening thing gets to you when your bf goes out and you're left home?

The very first thing that I would suggest is to get hooked up with some kind of young mothers' (or any mothers') group. Check through your local hospital and they should be able to give you some info.

The hardest part for me when I was pregnant and after baby came was that none of my friends had babies and there was no one to help me learn how to be a mom. Women need other women and if you can connect with a mom just a little older than you who you trust, really listen and watch her. You may not choose to do everything the same but you can learn a lot. I wish so much that I had someone like that when I was younger.

What do do? Take a yoga class for pregnant women! It will help you learn to relax (which you need for labor) and you may meet other moms that way. Is there anything that you have wanted to do but never got around to it with arts and crafts? This is a real good thing to keep your mind occupied/
I loved swimming when I was pregnant.

Most of all, you need to be with other people who share what you're going through. You need support and friendship. You will turn into a good role model because you're aware that you may not be the best at it right now.

Tell your bf what you're going through and gently say what you need.

Good luck! and be easy on yourself.

Answer 2

Well all I can say is it must be nice lol!!! I wouldn't change my life for anything but I cannot afford to go out and shop like crazy I go out and do a lot more looking than buying lol my baby boy has everything he will need of course and I also have an eight year old to worry about dental work after school sports etc ................not being mean but it sounds like you have it made just try to find little projects you could make a blanket or something!! I made my sons bumper pad quilt and crib skirt as well as curtains and bassinet bedding I'm the 24 year old martha stewart bargain hunting yet hip mommy lol!!

Answer 3

Sounds like you need your husband to stay home more and be company and support for you.

You don't need "excitement"; that can be bad for you. Excitement can be dangerous and/or nerve wracking. The last month is 9 months long.

It might help if you develop a hobby like reading. Don't go out and just spend lots and lots of money to entertain yourself. If you read the newspaper, you can have stimulating conversation with your husband. We all had to put up with this; you're no different.

Answer 4

I don't speak illiteratish. Also I don't know what mentality you are thinking but I believe a visit from the grammar nazi is in order! Your education what a waste of taxpaying dollars. Now I see why jobs are being shipped overseas because more people in china are graduating college who speak fluent English as a 2nd language when you can't even properly implement it as your primary language!

Answer 5

i can understand your situation whole-heartedly. im 22 and preggo w/ #2. divorced. im at 40 weeks and 3 almost 4 days right now but 2 weeks ago i was going insane. i acctually found going to the bookstore and reading something helped. none of my other friends are preggo so im kinda stuck in this by myself. shopping helped at first but now im out of things she needs and im just anxious for her to get here. i found a really good local park and i walk there every day with my son (3 years old and more like running instead of walking) i liked just window shopping for things i would like to fit into after baby is born. i hope some of these ideas help you. i know what its like going stir crazy. im there right now.

Answer 6

Ewwww we must be COMPLETE opposite. I do not want to get out of the house. I like it here. ;-) Nah really, my husband and I used to do alot of running, shopping and etc. Since I am pregnant with #2, I really dont feel like getting out of the house that much. I mean I feel great, I am in the best of moods, have the most energy, I really make production, and I hate to leave and mess up my day of things I wanted to do at home. Plus when I get out of the house, I always come home with bags of stuff to have to unpack and put up, I dont like it. Maybe i am just weird, Im not sure. LOL.

I couldnt imagine my husband not being here for me, pregnant or not, I LOVE to spend time with him and ALL day long, I look foward to him arriving home from work, I greet him at the truck with a big smile, hug, and kiss and it wouldnt be right if he were out at concerts, bars, with friends or whatever.

Suggestions on something you can do and enjoy while home...

Well I have took up handpainting. Spend about $40.00 on GOOD brushes from your local hobby store and paint is .44 cents a bottle, get all colors and get to painting. Buy canvas, paint on glass, wood, poster board or anything. It is really fun and you never know what masterpeice you will have when you are finished.

Try candle making. You can buy most everything to make candles from Walmart or a hobby store. Make any scent you want.

Try interior decorating, you can buy things at a used store like a thrift store or something, make flower arrangements, decorate stuff, its fun and cute too.

Mosaic patterns. They have the mosaic stones you can buy in a pack they are glass stones and very inexpensive, take an old wine glass, vase, or anything and make mosaic patterns. It is too cute.

Ok I am only 23 no I am not old, but I am crafty and I try to find ways to entertian myself other than house work and my 3 1/2 year old. Even though I have lots of chores to do and I have my hands full all day, I try to make an hour or so per day for "MY TIME" but you on the other hand, sounds like you have alot of time on your hands. Try some of these things, they are really lots of fun.

Best of wishes to you. But once you have that baby you wont be worrying about being bored anymore. ;-)

Answer 7

Don't worry the new energy is due to your natural nesting instincts...and you are going to need it in a few weeks when your little one gets here. Why is your man out running around instead of being with you to support you through this time??

Answer 8

ask me, i wish i cld do al that...i hve work and feel i wish i would not hve to work if allowed. Anyways, enjoy your time..coz whn the baby arrives...you wont hve a single minute for yourself. Ask you man to take you on a long drive...when he comes back from work...and long weekend is just nearby...plan a trip somewhere..

Answer 9

i totally went to concerts and all that and to a club once in a while................im going tru the same thing at the moment it drives me insane i have a 2 yr old to chase now and preg.
maybe you can come to vegas ( where i live ) and we can go and hang out at a nice hotel pool and drink virgin cocktails!!!!!

Answer 10

volunteer somewhere, maybe with all these teen mothers.
Then donate some of that baby stuff.