Now is you chance to purge your guilt!
2007-05-22 14:05:34 · 14 answers · asked by Hot Coco Puff 7 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Yes, my step dad.
I said some very horrible things to hurt him and my mum when i was a teenager, and was then put into foster care because i was so badly behaved.
I always wanted to say sorry to him, but was never brave enough.
Then last year he died, and the guilt that i carry with me on a daily basis is terrible, i wish i had said sorry.
So if you need to say sorry to someone, say it before its too late, you may never get the chance again.
2007-05-23 09:07:05 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know I have never done anything really bad to anyone, I rarely fall out with people and the things I have said that have hurt people are only small.
But someone did something really horrible to me and hurt me very much, I still cant let it go, even though Id love to. So I probably compare everything to that.
2007-05-22 23:17:26 · answer #2 · answered by Smiley_1714 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes when I was 5 I had a tantrum at a carnival because I was an ugly rabbit and my cousins and sister were princesses. My Great-grandma told me i was beautiful underneath but i was a brat and I cried. My heart aches when I think of this even though its such a trivial problem. I loved my Great- Grandma.
2007-05-22 14:10:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are things I have done in my relatively short life (I am only 32!) that I dont think I could even start to say sorry for but I am sorry non the less. In the long run as well as hurting others I have managed along the way to hurt myself. For what its worth I am sorry...............would I change the way I did things...................probably not! Hind sight is great but also cruel.
2007-05-22 14:45:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, hundreds. I didn't even begin to develop a conscience until I was quite old. But some of them might get some satisfaction if they knew how bad I feel now.
2007-05-22 14:19:29 · answer #5 · answered by zee_prime 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep! And I'm still looking for him!
Does anyone know "Dana La Bute"? I knew him in the late sixties from Meaford Ontario.
2007-05-22 14:09:14 · answer #6 · answered by the old dog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh gosh...tons of things. It took me a while to find the light in God and appreciate other people and myself. I have a very strong personality and can say some harsh things in the heat of the moment...
2007-05-22 16:56:53 · answer #7 · answered by bellababy8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...
-My mom and dad for all those times i tried/did hurt myself
-My brother for hurting him
-My current boyfriend who im very sorry has to deal with me
.........but ill never get tht chance, so basically right now i have to prove everyone wrong. But you have to also think, we cant take back what we said at that point in time, but didnt we mean what we said in that moment? if we ment it then, why take it back when me only ment it to mean what it ment then at tht time...
2007-05-22 15:14:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i have a few;
one; my first boyfriend. i was a horrible girlfriend. long story.
two; all the people that i called ugly & fat. (actually, the one's i called fat that love eating, NO 'SORRY' FOR YOU)
three; my mom. i was a stupid teenager & lied to her multiple times. i want a honest relationship with her.
2007-05-22 14:56:31 · answer #9 · answered by Santos 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because I don't raelly think about past.
2007-05-23 08:21:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋