what if you just don't go by labels and lets say somone just falls for a person regardless of their sex. if you find a connection with that person and love them more then just a friend it doesnt mean your gay right? why can't people just like whoever... ? is this what being bi is?
2007-05-22 13:23:00 · 12 answers · asked by k a t e 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
People should be able to like whomever. We should follow our hearts, and our hearts don't judge people by what sex they are. Think about it, all straight people are sexist because they refuse to consider going out with the same sex. If you love someone more than a friend, if you really love them, you could be either gay or bi, and should be able to go out with them and not get any sh*t from anyone. If you fall for someone, then you fall for them. The End, Whether you're a guy and their a girl or the other way or two guys or two girls. Love is Love. Nothing more need be said.
2007-05-22 15:13:30 · answer #1 · answered by shadowofu_love29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to Freud everyone is a little bit bisexual there are some strait people who deveolp crushes on people on the same sex at least once in their lives. I agree, with you these labels are silly. Therefore, you could be bi or just attracted to this one person on the same sex.
2007-05-22 14:42:36 · answer #2 · answered by Robyn H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should not matter....but people want to dislike anything they can. They love to worry about what others are doing instead of looking in the mirror. Bisexual is where you like both sexes...best of both worlds... :) and a pan sexual bases interest on the person not the sex of the person.
2007-05-22 13:45:06 · answer #3 · answered by C E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person should always go with their heart. We can't help who we fall in love with, regardless of sexuality, race, etc.
As you, I don't care for labels. We are who we are and should be accepted for that.
2007-05-22 13:31:20 · answer #4 · answered by S.F. Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some of us don't like "whoever." Some of us are exclusively attracted to members of our own gender.
2007-05-22 14:24:24 · answer #5 · answered by NHBaritone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't have to be a big deal. we should just stop using labels. it constricts us to a smaller group, when we are in a smaller group already. when people ask me if i'm gay, i say:
"no, i'm not gay. i'm just a guy that likes guys."
2007-05-22 14:15:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because people have the disheartening need to call something ab-normal, unless it's their view.
I don't care. We all grow from the same vine.
:)
2007-05-22 13:40:25 · answer #7 · answered by Bleed Like Me..... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way.If you're looking for a date and go into a bar,absolutely no one is eliminated.That's a lot better odds than most of us have.
2007-05-22 13:30:06 · answer #8 · answered by david o 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say bi. It sounds to me like you might be pansexual if you feel that way = )
2007-05-22 13:27:34 · answer #9 · answered by lunarlight555 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
great question why lable ppl we dont need labels we r who we are it doent matter who we love
2007-05-22 15:04:01 · answer #10 · answered by BOBO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋