I have a sweetahert of different faith. we've toiled the relationship for almost a year. He's been in his church for almost 12 years. We engaged in pre-marital sex for 8 months since our 2nd month as sweethaert. His pastor advised us to stop. We just had this last and we're settled not to do it again. but, his head pastor abruptly shifted the punishment-from confessing in front of their church leaders & not singing for half year to choosing me or his church. It's a matter of life and death for us. we both love each other. He can't choose one. He's a bisexual. I just love him. i can't leave him becoz, he'll got no one to love him the way I do. he'll just go astray. besides, we have drafted our family in the future. What shld I do? Should I leave him? His church is not being just! help please! I am really in quandary right now! We'll talk to his pastor together later. What should I tell him aside from saying, I love the guy. His church knows his a bisexual,too. Please HELP!!! tnx!!
2007-05-22 12:44:18 · 7 answers · asked by sweety_posh:=) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he has to choose between you or the church and he is having a difficult time making that decision, doesn't that sort of tell you where you stand with him?
2007-05-22 12:47:52 · answer #1 · answered by mimegamy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you talk to him about going to your church to talk to your pastor. You both might get a different outlook on what you need to do. Tell your pastor everything. Going by what his pastor says about confessing in front of their church leaders & not singing for half a year is crazy ! Only one you need to confess to is God. Having him choose you or his church is crazy too. What kind of religion is he in? Jesus is the only one you both need to talk to, and maybe your pastor can point you both in the right direction.
2007-05-22 13:09:42 · answer #2 · answered by Joe S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i do no longer attend church, i'm getting grounded. And when I say grounded, I advise no T.V., pc, iPod-- a heck, something that includes exciting relatively. i'm in uncomplicated terms left with homework and napping. as a results of fact of this i could desire to flow to church. My mum and dad are uncomplicated catholics via the way. meaning church each and every Sunday. luckily, they now permit me flow at midday, somewhat than at 6:30 in the morning. you do no longer even comprehend the way it replaced into like in the previous. those chilly mornings, loss of sleep, and dreadful making a track... -brrrrrrrz-
2016-11-26 02:31:04 · answer #3 · answered by kimmy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two ever decide to get married, remember the church won't be living with you. Both of you should find another church that you can both agree on, if not, go without the church. Good luck.
2007-05-22 12:52:59 · answer #4 · answered by larry m♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have him find a new church, or u could switch to his church, explain to the pastor that all religions tell you to love one another, and he is doing a poor job if he is preaching that you can't be together...
2007-05-22 12:50:03 · answer #5 · answered by sirkygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to help yourselves. If you can't you don't belong together. We're all strangers out here, you need help frompeople you know and trust. Not us.
2007-05-22 12:49:08 · answer #6 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes when you get married your one you go with him then ask him to go with you
2007-05-22 12:49:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋