2007-05-22 12:39:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I'm glad you asked that question because its one i ask myself frequently. I define Loser to mean that no matter how hard you try/ dont try or how much you improve your social skills people just put you aside. It happens to me - I think that if you just dont fit in, you just dont. I had to learn that the hard way.
SOME people are just different and dont match the majority. You have to accept it and find other things (not people) to make you happy. You cant change the way others perceive you.
And yes, if you wonder seriously if you are a loser then I guess you are. But, saying that doesnt mean you arent interesting and funny and great, just that you arent appreciated by the right group. You are a loser in the situation you are currently in - so change it!
2007-05-24 10:32:29 · answer #1 · answered by Sharon B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*laughs at the first response
"Loser" is a really crappy term to describe a person's difficulties. So-called losers are typically lagging on social skills and subsequently social networks, as well as self-esteem.
Once "losers" begin to develop confidence and learn how to interact with people in ways that exhibit kindness and interest in those others rather than an obvious concern and anxiety over their own images, they tend to shed the so-called "loser" status almost overnight.
Confidence and social skills mean that 1) you're not super let-down by rejection, 2) you're more interested in showing interest than receiving interest, 3) you carry the attitude that you're here to enjoy life, rather than care about what other people think of you.
2007-05-22 19:44:07 · answer #2 · answered by Buying is Voting 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A loser is a tag placed on someone else and not by an individual on themselves. My guess would be that someone insecure or judgemental enough to call another person a loser is actually the one who is the loser.
2007-05-22 19:46:21 · answer #3 · answered by Jo Ann the Queen 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Being a loser or not being a loser is about self image. If you perceive yourself to be a loser then you are. If you see yourself to be cool then you are that. You have to project what you want to be.
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2007-05-22 19:45:35 · answer #4 · answered by sicrob008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one is a loser unless you disrespect someone. If you’re mean or greedy then you are. If you just are "yourself" and a few losers (disrespecting you) says that you are a Loser, and your nice, then they are lying.
Popularity is only in your mind, there is no "Real" Popularity.
2007-05-22 19:48:16 · answer #5 · answered by tommy boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask on Yahoo Answers.
2007-05-22 19:47:14 · answer #6 · answered by ems2000tab 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when THERE POINTING AND(snort) laughing (dont get into the situation)
2007-05-22 19:43:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you are, you're right.
2007-05-22 20:00:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could tell you.
2007-05-22 19:41:40 · answer #9 · answered by Jack Flash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you have to ask...............
2007-05-22 19:41:37 · answer #10 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋