My boyfriend and I fight so much and have nothing in common that when I shake the 8 ball it predicts we are definate to not be with eachother in the future.We are having a baby and I just wonder what problems can my baby have in the future for not having a mom and dad who are not together.Would it be the same of having a divorced parent? I feel bad for my baby already but I also am only having this child for my boyfriend because he wants it.What do kids turn out like with just a daddy figure?
2007-05-22 12:07:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
WOW. maybe you should have thought about it before deciding to have a kid just because HE wanted to. The baby will grow up just fine without a father as long as you keep it together and raise it right and have some support.
and those 8 balls dont REALLY tell the future.
2007-05-22 12:12:00 · answer #1 · answered by vixalle21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heavens! Please go and see an agency about having a nice, MATURE (as in people who have it together) married couple adopt this baby. He/She is headed for a terrible life with you. Sorry, but you sound way too young and immature to have a child. And your relationship with your BF stinks! There are two people who would love to have your child and who want one so bad. Please make that decision! Also, definitely leave this BF. Get some counseling so that you have a better self image and find some goals for your life. Make a fresh start at life. You're young and can "re-create" yourself before it's too late. Don't doom this child to the terrible life that I can see would be his fate if he lived with you in your present circumstances!
2007-05-22 19:51:30 · answer #2 · answered by happyindywoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE ONLY HAVING THE CHILD FOR YOUR BOYFRIEND????????????
First of all... that is just wrong. Imagine how you would feel being that child. Don't ever do something just because someone else wants you to... especially something as life changing as having a baby... That is horrible.
2007-05-22 19:12:49 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so basically you are saying you don't want this baby which is sad.and from the looks of it the baby will have a bad life with the way you are thinking..but if you really did want this baby then the baby would be just fine with you or the daddy..
2007-05-22 19:14:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want the child then sign over alll your parternal rights to the father. This has nothing to do with marriage and divorce either.
2007-05-22 19:14:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK. If you are looking to "Magic 8 Balls" for advice, you really need to consider if you are mature enough to raise a child.
2007-05-22 19:12:07 · answer #6 · answered by get a grip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek psychiatric counseling now.
2007-05-22 19:14:23 · answer #7 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only having this child because "he wants it"?????
OMG seriously, women like you should have their ovaries given to intelligent women....
2007-05-22 19:11:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋