Should I stay or should I go?

Question

So I'm a freshman in high school and this school year is almost over. I still haven't been to a big party- you know, lots of people, maybe alcohol, crazy fun. I'm really not into the alcohol/getting drunk scene or the drug scene but I was invited to this big party where there is a small chance that someone's going to sneak in a beer. I guess I have watched too many movies because I'm scared that the police are gonna come and I'll get arrested or something. The mom of the person having the party is even going to be there... so i don't really know why I'm hesitant about going. Should I go and experience a big party before my freshman year is over, or should I stay home?

Answer 1

Go! Welcome to the dark-side as I call it. That magical little place that exsist in the shadows. The place were what the law doesn't know, what hurt them. Be careful, be smart, but your going to have to go and have this experience. Really getting drunk for your first time at a big party is a big NO, NO!!!! Don't do it, but if you've been druck, drank and controlled yourself, go have fun. If this is your frist experience with the drug sence, don't do it there, stay home and see if you can't have a more private experience to get use to the way acholoh well effect you. Because you don't want to be "that one lady who got to drunk and made a fool of herself". Also be smart about everything, if you can't relax don't stay. If you don't trust someone, don't take want they say to heart. And always remember your pricipals, contrary to popular belief, standing up for something doesn't make you uncool. Not giving a great reason can, keep that in mind.