ok this boy ask you out u say yes and go out 4 like 2-3 weeks you find out hes cheetin on u w/ a gurl w/ the same name as you and u thought that person was u what am i to do :(
2007-05-22 11:53:50 · 21 answers · asked by Jess ka 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
please tell me what i need to do??
2007-05-22 11:57:50 · update #1
Unless you think he's gotten you or the other girl pregnant, ask in the relationships section.
2007-05-22 11:57:38 · answer #1 · answered by Kelsey H 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Um no, its not like he cant tell the difference between the two of you, I have a twin sister and they better tell the difference. Trick is to make him feel like the dirt ball he is, tell him that your not going to play his games and that its his loss and leave him with that. Dont get all mad or cry just make it seem like its his fault therefore its no big loss to you. I mean really hes not the person you thought he was anyway, either hes incredibly stupid or a selfish jerk who wants two women, one way or another ba-bye.
2007-05-30 00:58:42 · answer #2 · answered by lil_mis_all_my_t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick a new guy. If he cant start out with one girl he wont b able to stay with one girl. Plus is this how u want to be treated? Be tactful and simply say "I dont think you and I are gonna work out I realize we have different values and personalities so I think it's better if we just part ways now"
Then Walk away.
2007-05-22 19:01:25 · answer #3 · answered by do you know me? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say good-bye. If you let any man treat you with such disrespect as this one did, your going to allow other men to do the same and your worth much more than that. Its easy to find a BAD man than it is a good one, so keep looking. Settle nothing less.
2007-05-30 15:00:14 · answer #4 · answered by Macadoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I truly dont understand how you can confuse yourself with someone who has the same name as you....doesnt make sense. But having said that, anybody who is seeing someone else at the same time is just out to have fun...which is cool...but if youre expecting more, then move on. He apparently wants to keep himself open to date anyone he pleases, and prob when hes ready, he'll change his ways. Until then.....accept it or move on.
2007-05-29 16:07:37 · answer #5 · answered by Debbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him quick. Get another guy. Did he actually ask you to" go" with him or were you only " going out " with him?After 2 or 3 weeks, you don't need to be that involved with him anyway.
2007-05-29 01:39:42 · answer #6 · answered by Ava 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my personal reaction would be to call him a lying, cheating dirty rat and get rid of him. You're certainly worth much, much more than this, and you'll find someone new-someone who will treat you in the way you deserve-with respect.
2007-05-29 19:22:16 · answer #7 · answered by Loulla 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch the asshole and move on! Too many women, Including me, put up with WAY TOO MUCH SHT out of men!
2007-05-30 01:23:46 · answer #8 · answered by itismine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave him and find a guy who u cant trust and wont cheat on u!
2007-05-27 16:16:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and find a different guy.
2007-05-30 15:21:38 · answer #10 · answered by Deb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋