It can happen but normally in that situation the girl ends up hurt and the guy just moves on to his next "friends with benefits" Sorry but its the truth. Not all guys are ready for a relationship but don't want to miss out on the sex. Something to think about
Good luck.
2007-05-22 17:23:01
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answered by tasha 5
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A sexual relationship could develop into an emotional relationship for the girl more than it will for the guy. Girl's tend to be a lot more emotional than boys and tend to make attachments much faster than they do. The reason a guy would rather have a sexual relationship as opposed to a real relationship is because the guy would be getting the benefits of having sex with a girl he likes but not have to commit to her at all. For your sake, don't do it. The only one who will come out hurting and not gaining anything is you. realise that it is not worth giving your body to a man that doesn't want to be with you. Find someone else, it will the best thing you can do for yourself.
2007-05-22 11:58:19
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answered by debbie_75052 4
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To answer your first and second question, yes. And, for your third, sometimes.
Some guys, just as girls, have the ability to "shut off" the emotional tie or bond with people...just get get it on. To me thats very selfish and indifferent toward the idea of intimacy, but some people are just that.
If the "girl" in this senario, likes this guy, and this guy has not reciprocated on the intimacy level---express that you need more of this from the person that you are intimate with; tell him that you love him and that you want him more in your life. If he doesn't want this, unless you can deal with this; accept this; want this too; then this relationship is not for you. If he is unwilling to grow with it, where you want growth, then you will only be resentful later on...and he might end up thinking your too clingy and leave. Be communicative, don't argue, be to the point, and be mature.
2007-05-22 12:01:38
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answered by What, what, what?? 6
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If there isn't any emotion,why would you bother? If the guy won't give it a chance,then he knows your an easy lay.Men promise all sorts of things to get sex. You might feel an emotional tie,because women usually do. But men like your sex partner,want the good life(Sex) with a willing partner, but not the emotional tie. Depends how long your willing to oblige? You will find someone who does want that tie. But you cannot force it on people. Good Luck!
2007-05-22 12:00:07
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answered by Anonymous
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The answer applies with females too, I'm sure. People are attracted to others in different ways. For some it's simply physical and for others it's more than that. I've been in a couple of relationships that were nothing more than physical. I made that clear in the beginning, for I didn't want to hurt anyone.
My advice to "a girl" in this situation is to cancel this relationship if indeed she is the only one that cares from the heart. If she doesn't do this, then he will, eventually, and it would be much worse.
2007-05-22 11:55:41
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answered by Yea Yea 4
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There are girls you bring home to mama and girls you just bang. Just like there are the girls you make love to and the ones you just f*ck. Guys now adays just want to hit it and quit it. They don't want an emotional relationship with attachments. It's too difficult. They are a walking hormone and will say and do anything to get what you have. After that they drop you and move on to someone younger and prettier. I don't think sex helps a relationship out. If anything it just complicates things. Get to know each other mentally and emotionally instead of just physically.
2007-05-22 11:57:50
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answered by Anonymous
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These are the kinds of problems I see more and more of in recent years because of the prevalence of casual sex. You cannot build a relationship from the outside-in. You must start by getting to know the person. If you think casual sex will ever lead to a long-term, loving, respectful relationship, you are sorely mistaken. Why would he want this?? Because guys like sex, period.
2007-05-22 11:56:08
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answered by Terri J 7
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If the guy do no longer choose a relationship from the initiating it relatively is b/c he needs basically one component and commonly in no way finally leads to a real relationship. a guy knows of if he needs a relationship from the initiating and ought to play consisting of your head and allow you to comprehend "later" just to maintain the @$$ around so he can get it while he needs it. Now i'm particular a number of them ought to finally finally end up a real relationship however the data say no.
2016-11-05 01:22:52
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answered by Anonymous
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lololololololol ......oh wait... you were serious.If he didnt want a serious reltionship from the start and you have had sex with him, then you are just one in the long line of girls who offer themselves as his own personal cheap throw away disposable human sex toy. Next time, no sex until youre married and you wont have to ask this question hon.If a guy finds MANY girls attractive and would like to sleep with them all and they are all one by one or more than one at a time offering theirselves for sexual "try outs" then he isnt going to commit.Why settle for ONE peice of candy when all the peices of candy are begging "try me try me"?
2007-05-22 11:57:11
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answered by Anonymous
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well if you went into a relationship based off of sex i don't see it changing. If you would've gotten to know him and went out and spent quality time together and gained respect and trust out of it then i could see it developing into something more. Right now all you are is a bootycall and that is all he wants from you.
2007-05-22 11:59:17
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answered by wilfeistykitten2003 4
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