confused....?

Question

i asked this before, but i only got 2 answers, so here it is again...lately (since around friday, i would say) i've been feeling a little confused. i think i feel sort of depressed and i think its because i want something, but the thing is, i have no clue what it is that i want. i thought i was finally happy with my friends, i thought i finally found the best friends i ever had, but now i'm not so sure. i don't even know if i want friends anymore. its not anything they did, they're still great friends, but i think i changed. i don't know what to do. how do i find what i want? i don't even know why i feel like this, it came all of a sudden. i really need help... by the way, i'm 15, so i know this is a time of "self discovery" but how do i do that?

Answer 1

You can't discover yourself as there's no one you.We all have lots of different parts.When you're angry,you could be so mean whereas when you're happy,you could be a nicer person.For example,I went for it and there's no it.Just get a new hobby and relax.

I hope that you feel better soon.

Answer 2

I think this often happens in your teenage years, although it can happen throughout your life, feeling the need for change is normal. I feel like this sometimes and I'm much older than you, I'm probably at the other end of the spectrum. It is confusing but I think it's just that we change throughout our lives, our priorities change, values and even the type of friends we want to bother with as you have said. It gives us a feeling of restlessness and frustration with everything and most of all ourselves. Those confusing times when you know you want something but you don't know what, you don't feel happy and you can't think why. You can strive to make changes in your life but some of the most important ones just happen out of the blue, we just have to have some patience sometimes. When you do find out what you really want you must really go for it while you have the chance because life is too short to miss out on. The most important thing is to find what makes you really happy and hang on to it and like yourself for the person you are not the person other people want you to be! I'm sure it'll all work out after all it's all part of growing up or I suppose in my case growing older! Good Luck!

Answer 3

I think we all feel this way from time to time, I remember I got it really bad when I was around 16-17. It is weird because it comes from no-where and hangs around like a bad smell. All my mates started to get on my nerves, they suddenly seemed so different from the person I was or was becoming, and I felt as though I could no longer relate to them.
If I was you I'd use this time of self discovery to do just that. What do you like doing? Is there a hobby or skill you have wanted to learn? Start putting your energy into something for yourself, something that lifts you spirits or challenges your mind.
There is a secret stage we come to in life, adults find it hard to explain, so we just cop out by saying 'when you’re my age, you’ll understand.............and you will.

Answer 4

1st off your 15 and your body and mind are growing and changing. The friends and likes you have now till when you get out of High School will change many times. Read, Study hard, Play hard and explore all there is for someone your age for soon you'll be old and married with children like that TV show Married with Children. Hehe Well 10-15 years that is... Smile and have fun!!!

Answer 5

"TOO ME THE TERM CHANGE MEANS TOO GROW" EVERYONE CHANGES AT THERE OWN PACE, JUST BECAUSE YOUR FRIENDS DONT FEEL THE SAME AS THEY USED TOO, DOESNT MEAN THERE ANY LESS YOUR FRIENDS IT JUST MEANS YOU VIEW THINGS DIFFERENTLY TOO THEM BECAUSE YOU HAVE GROWN. DONT DUMP YOUR FRIENDS BECAUSE OF THIS, BECAUSE YOUR FRIENDS BESIDES YOUR FAMILY ARE THE MOST IMPORTANT PEOPLE TOO BE WITH WHEN YOUR GOING THROUGH THE TEENAGE YEARS, I KNOW IT IS PROBABLY EASIER TOO SAY BUT THEY WILL CHANGE AS WELL SOON ENOUGH. SELF DISCOVERY HAPPENS EVERYDAY OF YOUR LIFE, IM 24 AND IM STILL LEARNING NEW THINGS ABOUT MYSELF EVERYDAY. TAKE CARE, I HOPE THIS MESSAGE HELPS.

Answer 6

Find a bible teaching church,, one that has a great youth group,, When you can't find the answers or you just don't know what to do,, ask God to guide you,, He is always there even when you don't think he is,,

Answer 7

hi i am 15 aswell, i have this thingz with my friendz all da time, like at times i think that i think they are ma best matez and them 2moro i might think they are anoying or i might think they are not my best friendz i alwayz thought it was mood swingz, i think that after a while that you will stop feeling like this because i used to feel like this before all the time

Answer 8

unfortunately.. and you won't understand this till later in life.. you have to figure it out on your own.. that may not seem fair.. it may not seem nice.. but it's the truth.. we all had to do it.. and we could give you answers till we were all blue in the face... and not a one of them would truly sink in. The most important thing is to try and keep faith in yourself... the rest will fall into place.. just keep trying.

Answer 9

It is probalby hormones......During this time most females have problems like this I know I did......Your hormone are changing and getting worse so this will most likely cure itself but if you want see a therapist and get professional help!

Answer 10

I know this sounds so cliche, but give it time. You'll be able to understand your thoughts and emotions within time. Just be patient!