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Question

im a 15 year old boy and i love this girl, i've known her since year 1 of primary school. In year 6 i told everyone i liked her she didnt look very happy when i said that. I'm now in year 10 and ive been seing her from time to time in, i made a promise to myself this year that i will see her moree than twice this year and in one of thos occasions i will tell her how i feel, BUT the problem is how do i tell her, what do i say, what happens if she doesn't accept what i say, if she throws it back in my face i can't carry on living without her shes the anegl in my dreams the girl of my dream i want to spen the rest of my life with her so i need all of your answers of what to do im very scared so i need your help? pSo lease help the needed.

Answer 1

I am from the US and I have had a similar experience. At 15 you are probably unprepared for a serious relationship but this is the time that you will learn the ins and outs. I used to love this girl at your age and I would write her notes. Unfortunately her Dad found all of the notes and I was not allowed to see or talk to the girl again. For you I would say the best thing to do is let her know in person how you feel and see what happens. If it doesn't work out then you must wait to pursue other girls. That is the sad truth because it has to be a two way street. Now I will say that love is the greatest force in the world so if you really have love for her and if it is not returned; try to turn that love into motivation instead of becoming bitter like I did for a time. I am 30 now and I just met the girl of my dreams. I know she is the one because fate allowed us to meet and the signs of our meeting were undeniable. We met during happy hour at the local and we had no idea we would meet that night. However we both knew and we both could not deny our love for each other. We met and discussed many similarities but as I walked her to her car on that first night of meeting I realized we had parked right next to each other on the same street. Fate is undeniable.

Answer 2

Just be honest with her, tell her uve been wanting to tell her this for a while but were worried what she would say. If shes as nice a girl as u say she is then she wont throw it back in ur face, she might not say she feels the same way but at least that way u will know for definate. Hopefully she will say she feels the exact same but honestly if she doesnt, and i know its such a cliche, but theres loads more fish in the sea!! Ur still only young and ull meet someone else u like just as much. So dont worry, let her know how u feel and whatever happens at least ull not be thinking i wonder what would have happened if id told her. Good Luck :o)

Answer 3

Ah you poor thing, hormones at your age are a nightmare and even though this seems the most important thing in your whole life right now, things will change. One thing in life I have learnt though is to take the bull by the horns and go for it. You can often surprise yourself by the end result. You have to tell her you like her, but don't scare her off by huge romantic stuff or telling her she's the angel of your dreams, she'll run a mile. Just tell her you have had a little crush on her for a while and would she like to come to the cinema (or wherever) with you. If you are too shy to ask her send her a cute little note.

If she laughs at you then she is a mean person and not worth your adoration. You sound like a very sweet guy and deserve to have a nice girl.

But if you don't do anything about it you will just regret it and it will eat away at you!

Answer 4

Okay, you're not going to like this answer, I'm afraid.

Take a chance. Butter her up by bringing her a single rose and presenting to her, and tell her how glad you are to see her, and that you'd like to see her more often.

She may laugh, and that laugh might not be nice. But hey, if she throws it back in your face, you will have tried, right? I'll tell you a secret - every girl likes a trier, they don't necessarily want to go out with a trier, but they will respect one. So maybe the girl you like reacts negatively, but so what - the world won't end. One of her friends might like you, and let you know, so go out with her.

You might not get what you want. If the girl you like doesn't accept you, you'll get over it. She's the girl of your dreams, your fantasies ... the reality could easily be very different and you should be prepared for this. But do try. As I said, if she turns you down, you'll get over it. If she doesn't, well ....

No need to be scared. Only two possibilities here.

Answer 5

I do understand your pain. It is very difficult to feel such love and for that love to cause such heartache. Unfortunately there is no right answer, no magic wand that can make this work for you. You have to be strong, you have felt this way about her for a long time now. you cannot carry on without an answer, so go for it, tell her you like her without scaring her off with your depth of feeling....be cool!!!....and if she cannot reciprocate then i am afraid sweetie you will have to accept that she is not the angel you thought she was. However, you will still be a strong, sensitive and wonderful person who will find happiness. all the best sweetie xxxx

Answer 6

Do you believe in fate? If it's going to happen with this girl then it will happen. Is she going out with anyone at the moment, it's best to check first. If not then the next time you see her on her own, do it, ask her how would she feel if you were to ask her out, she will be embarrassed because you have put her on the spot, but she may give you the answer you want. If she doesn't then move on get yourself another girl and try and forget her. You might have a relationship with her but she might not be the girl you thought she was.

Answer 7

well your only 15. I've been in the same place as you. I've know this guy since we were 5. we saw each other like once a year. I loved him ever since we were 5. when i was about 18ish he came down to see me, and we went out to a party and he just came out and told me he loved me. it was the best day of my life. now were 21 with a child.

I think you should tell her so that she knows. but its really up to if she feels the same as you do. good luck!

Answer 8

You are fearing rejection, so that's not new, its happened to everyone. Firstly, are you on the same planet as her, ie, in the looks department are you on a par with her, or do you think she is out of your class, if not jump in with both feet, and if she blows you out, there are plenty more fish in the sea. Put yourself over as being a nice guy, and make her laugh, then you are half way there.

Answer 9

There is only one way of saying these things,if she knows you like her,simply say,i really do like you a lot,i have done for some time,i need to know if you feel the same about me.you,ll get your answer,but you know love,if you,ve made your mind up to say something,you will simply say it,these things come natural when the time comes,you,ll prob be surprised when you,ve said it,i mean at yourself,don,t think about it,you can,t plan these things,they just happen,just prepare yourself for whatever answer,she may give you.it,s always hard for you young men the first time it,s like everything else,but please don,t feel down about it if she says what you don,t want to hear,go for it love,it,s either yes or no,you,ve got a life time ahead of you.

Answer 10

the thing is, love aint easy!! and as you get older it wont get any easier! so, what you have to do is learn. learn from your mistakes, and learn what works.
when your out with the girl, see if she is giving you any signs, if she is then just be straight up and say you like her. also make sure youre alone with her, its less embarresing.
if she is not giving you any signals, maybe get a mate to find out what she htinks of you. just tell her you really like her and would like to take her out.
if it works, great, if not, it will be awful, but i bet you someone else will come along.
hope that helps