my husband is deployed and i'm sure that when he gets home he'll just be glad to see me and be home, BUT
i'm thinking about buying a cute little something to wear in the bedroom and i'm wondering if it's even worth it.
i mean, do guys really get THAT into that stuff, or is it just something for the movies and playboy?
i guess what i'm getting at, is that sometimes, us gals do stuff for our men and we don't really get the big reaction we are anticipating....is this like one of those times?
thanks for the experienced responses.
2007-05-22 08:31:14 · 8 answers · asked by joey322 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
oh, he WILL notice it.
when you put on an outfit you get into the role and play along - its not just exciting for him but also for you.
just make it special - dont tell him to wait untill you go to the bathroom to change - he will be expecting something or fall asleep while you are changing.
do it in a hotel or meet him like that when he comes from work - find out what mood he is in before.
2007-05-22 23:28:37 · answer #1 · answered by Natalie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh god yes does he! We buy a new outfit for me at twice a month now. And i know what you mean about wanting to wear it when he comes home. When mine came back on leave from korea i had my neighbor watch the kids all weekend and met him at the door wearing a really sexy nighty. It was so worth it. But remember to remind him not to get to excited and tear it off of you.
2007-05-22 08:36:28 · answer #2 · answered by wilfeistykitten2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the mood he is in. He buys outfits for me to dress up in and then there is sometimes that he just wants to get at it. But most of the time he loves it when I dress up for him. It gives s*x a whole new outlook.
2007-05-22 08:43:14 · answer #3 · answered by irishlady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure why not! sex feels better when something is different, find out wat he like, or wat he desires, its not easy, best way is to ask him. find a day and treat him to it. but check out his mood and etc before u get into it.
there are many thing u can buy to spice up sex, u can buy a uniform, nurse, police, fireman, doctor, anything. anything at all. some like u to act "cute", some like stocking, even cosplay! depends on his fetish.
one reason man dont react much when the woman dress up is because he dont fancy / like the dress up. not because he dont give a dam. try asking him. see wat he says.
good luck~
2007-05-22 09:01:22 · answer #4 · answered by vincent de fat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
allright lady every man loves him self a devoted women...thats your showing him....your devoted also what man in the world is going come home see their women in a skimpy little outfit just waiting for them and say "hunny im just to tired...sorry..."...if he says that, im sorry to tell you but hes gay....hahaha!!!
2007-05-22 08:42:46 · answer #5 · answered by max 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do it for my boyfriend and he loves it..ive actually snet him out to pick stuff out for me and gets a kick out of that too soo yes they love and appreciate it
2007-05-22 09:01:38 · answer #6 · answered by LB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. And it was appreciated. Something he always remembered.
2007-05-22 08:36:14 · answer #7 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OH GOD PLEASE YES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-05-22 08:36:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋